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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My hubby and I have a great relationship, but need some work in the bedroom department. Two of the things I want the most - to receive oral and to do it doggie style - are not happening at all. EVER. My husband tried oral on me once and did not like it. I've offered everything...to shave down their, washing up meticulously, chocolate syrup...anything, but he won't try again. By the way, he does not receive oral from me and does not want it. So I guess unless a miracle happens it is a lost cause. The doggie style position never works out for some reason. I am a few inches taller than he is, and he is about average size down there. We just can't get it to work, we try, but then he goes soft and the show is over. I've even had him put a pillow under his knees but still no luck. So my questions are - is there any way to try and get him to enjoy oral? And any ideas how to make doggie style work? I feel like I am missing so much from my sex life because of these 2 issues and it's making me feel very down.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 January 2010):
 Well the truth is that enjoying giving a woman oral stimulation and satisfaction is an acquired taste. I still remember the very first time I put my face into a woman's vulva and licked. There was a musty kind of aroma and taste and it kind of took me by surprise. I was just a teen and she was much older. She was fresh and clean, but there was still a womanly presence there that I was unprepared to savor. I'll admit that I balked that time.
Well, it did not take long for me to appreciate those tastes and aromas. Soon after, it became my greatest desire to please women this way. And of course, the oral pleasures a woman can do for a man usually and should follow. Your man has simply shut off the possibilities before acquiring the great pleasure. There is no pill to cure. My one suggestion is to purchase or borrow a book titled, "She Comes First" by Dr. Ian Kerner, or print and ask him to read my posts about cunnilingus in this web site's archives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): Well at least you guys are still having sex. Good for you both for trying, there might be other creative ways to enjoy each other, chat about it and come up with something mutual that you both might really enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): they make special pillows and lounges that help with all sorts of sexual positions. go to www.liberator.com
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