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How do we handle the situation at the B&B we'll be staying at?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing a younger man The other night my young man took me out to a nice dinner and he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away

It is believed there is nothing more wonderful than feeling sexy, and beautiful, and being pursued by a younger man. What could be the result of being pursued by a younger man?

what are some sensual activities that we might enjoy doing during our time together at the bed and breakfast?

We have not talked about sleep arrangements and no mention has been made to whether or not we will be making love/having sex there. How should I handle this situation? Is this something we should talk about before we go?

A concern about the bed and breakfast is the noise level.What if we are noisy during the night? Will we disturb other guests? What if they hear us? Is there a problem?

Any preparations I should be before we go?

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A male reader, Anonymousmale1 United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

Anonymousmale1 agony auntSociety has always looked the other way with older men and younger women. Finally, Finally it becoming increasingly acceptable for older women and younger men.

As a man myself, I loved older women when I was much younger and to be honest with you all young men talk about older women.

I hope I am not offending you by using that term,(Older) so if you don't mind lets change it to beautifully mature women.

Anyway, back to your trip. Don't ask about sleeping arrangements, you may spoil his plans. Just allow him to determine how things will go and let nature take it's course. I can assure you that he's thinking about it and hoping that you don't ask so he can see if he can seduce you in his own way.

Forget about the noise, if anyone complains it's simply because they didn't have nearly as much fun as you and your date did. Besides, a blushing woman is a happily satisfied woman.

I hope things go well and that you have a great time on your trip.

Oh, and as far as sensual activities are concerned. I am more than confident you'll think of something great.

Good Luck!

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A female reader, WDE123 United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

If you haven't slept together than I think it is definitely worth while talking about it ahead of time. If you know that you are "loud" in bed than maybe thats not the best place to do it the first time. It would be a shame to have tobe quiet when you dont want to. Or it could be more arousing becasue you have to be quiet. it really is dependent on you.

As far as sensual activities go, eating stuff together and off of each other is a classic. strawberries, whip cream, warm melted dark chocolate. Try going to an adult store, they have all sorts of fun sexy games!

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