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writes:hey...im a 15 year old girl. and i jus wana no wat people think and if they have any advice..ive been in a relationship with this boy for jus over a month. and i reli wana lose mi virginity and have a baby!! i no people are goin 2 say im to young.but, i reli dont no y i want a baby so much. i really want to lose mi virginity to this boy!! and have a baby with him (he sed he would) .i jus wana no wat people think before i do sumthin in the end i might regret! :S x thanks x
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reader, rockin49  +, writes (21 August 2009):
You may not regrett the lost of your virginity, but you will regert the the hardships on yourself and child, parents
and most of all youth. Wise up. If you need sex have it for pleasure, be particular of mates and enjoy your teens.
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reader, tamika1983 +, writes (13 August 2009):
I really think it is in your best intrest as well as your childs to wait. One because your too young. U need to focus on your education and becoming employed with a steady pay check. U have to make sure u are finically stabled cause kids are expensive. U said u knew this guy for a month do u even know if he's ready for a baby and even if he is how sure are u that he wonl€ just up and leave. Then your stuck raising a baby on your own and probably end up on welfare. I'm saying wait until your finalially stabled cause I made that same mistake. My mother and father were drug attics and I needed love so I started to mess with this guy. I was 12 and he was 18 he told me everything I needed to hear. By me being so young and nieve I got pregnant and within 3 months after our baby was born he disappeared claiming my family told him to stay away. What I still can't understand is if he had time to find a way to have sex with me then why couldn't he find a way to see his child. Anyway she met her father for the first time last year at age 11. It was hard and if it wasn't for my family I wouldn't have gotton thru it. All I'm saying is make a life for yourself that u can be comfortable and confident in bringing a child into. That means at least finish high school and find a job if u don't plan on college and make sure u have a stable home. GOOD LUCK and please please wait.
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reader, lealea +, writes (12 August 2009):
my opinion is if u feel it is right with this boy then loose it to him but with the baby thing u realli need to think, i know how it can feel to want a baby but u have to think about the baby and if u can look after and provide for it. trust me having a baby isnt what its cracked up to be, u wont be able to see friends or have time with your bf alone it will always be about the baby. do u wanna put ur life on hold at this age????
hope i helped
tc x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):
A child needs mature parents. You are not mature if you want a baby when you cannot provide for it yourself. Therefore you are not ready to have a baby yet.
Just because you want something doesn't mean you always get it. That is life. That is being an adult.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Be prepared to be torn apart in the next couple posts you get. You're not even old enough to consent to sex. You think you're going to stay together forever with the guy you're with now? You're probably not going to.
Having sex is a big enough decision. You don't need a baby. Are you employed full time? Are you prepared to NOT finish school? Do you even have a job? Babies cost a LOT of money. You don't need to be dependant on some guy who will probably run away after he sees the amount of responsibility that comes with a child.
Babies aren't like pets. You can't just leave them alone or let them do their own thing when you want to go out and enjoy life. When you have a baby at a young age you miss out on a lot. There is really no rush to have a child.
Get a guinea pig instead.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Amen Sista!
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (10 August 2009):
You already know what most people are going to say. And the fact you have the idea of "regret" already on your mind I think says you are not ready for something that's going to consume the next 18 years of your life.
That aside, a one-month relationship is nothing. Just because this guy says he would now doesn't mean he going to say the same thing even one month from now.
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