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A few questions on pregnancy...

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Question - (10 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

can you get pregnant from anal sex? my friends say that it won't count as you losing your virginity and you can't get pregnant.also can you get pregnant if he pulls it out before he releases sperm can you get pregnant? thats also what they told me but i still would'nt do it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

By the way CONDOMS DO NOT PROTECT YOU AGAINST THE HPV VIRUS WHICH CAUSES CERVICAL CANCER....Having multiple partners is also not a cause, you can contract HPV with one sexual encounter...it is one of the MOST prevelant viruses known to humans, over 90% of young people will be exposed to it at some point in their lives, whether or not it becomes full blown cervical cancer is a function of young age and unknown factors.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

rcn agony auntI'd have to agree with the other poster. This is not a question for strangers to answer. Ask your parents, not your friends because they know just about as much as you do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

This is the time in your life where you need to be approaching your mother with these type of sex questions. There are kids advising kids on this site, and besides it is important that you feel comfortable taling with your parents about sex.

Anal sex would be a baaad way to lose your virginity, and yes penetration is having sex....and yes you can get pregnant if sperm comes near your vagina, they swim and can live inside you for three days waiting on an egg to fertalize, so yeah you can get pregnant the first time you have sex, during your period, any time.

Please talk to your parents about your sex questions, and please wait until you are much much older to become sexually active...giving oral sex is sex, too by the way contrary to popular belief.

You can contract some serious STD's with oral sex or vaginal or anal sex...some like HPV can lead to cervical cancer which is deadly and being young puts you at a much higher risk of contracting the HPV virus through sexual activity. Sex is a serious responsibility.

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A female reader, WDE123 United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

No. you can not get preganant from anal sex. Depending on who you ask and where you stand with your religious beliefs anal sex can count as losing your virginity. In my opinion your virginity isn't a tangible thing. It is being intamite with another person, whether it be oral,anal, or vaginal sex. To some people even "petting" (fingering, stroking, getting each other off)is a part of virginity. so it depends on what you think and your "moral/religious" stance. Though alot of people will say that you don't loose your virginity until you have vaginal sex, in my personal opinion I think any type of penis penetration counts (anal or vaginal).So just think where you will draw the line and STICK TO IT!!!

Pulling out is called sex roulette. It is a hit or miss thing and unless the guy has INCREDIBLE control (generally NOT younger guys and I'm talking 30 or younger!) it is not a recommended form of birth control. and another thing to keep in mind is that pre-cum may contain sperm so sperm will still get inside you whether he completely ejaculates inside you or not.

The simple answer: Buy condoms. If you are thinking about having ANY kind of sex (oral, anal, vaginal) GET CONDOMS!!! You will prevent getting some kind of STD and avoid pregnancy. and to protect twice as much there is a Birth control called VCF that is for girls to use. Its really easy and its just one more thing to help avoiding unwanted pregnancy.

Hope i helped answer your questions!

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