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Should I get involved in a FWB relationship with my ex?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just broke up with my child's father. The best thing in our relationship was sex. It was awesome. There was never a time when it wasn't good. We've been broken up for a month and have had sex twice. It would have been more than that, but a few times I've said no and so has he. But i still want to have sex with him. He just turns me on so much. I still have feelings for him and he for me, but I don't want to. He said he just wanted to take a break and possibly get back together soon. I want to get back with him, but I don't at the same time. I just want the sex continue. Am I wrong? Please give me advice! Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

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To EllsworthT, yes the sex was great for both of us, that's why we still go at it every now and then. The breakup was because he does not fulfill his responsibilities as a father and a boyfriend. He joined a motorcycle gang a few months ago and started spending all his time with them. I told him he needed to spend more time with his family and leave the gang, but he thought he could do both. So I told him we needed to stop seeing each other until he got his priorities straight.

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A male reader, EllsworthT South Africa +, writes (10 August 2009):

Sorry, I don't buy it. People don't break up when the sex is "awesome" for both of them. You might think the sex is great, but does he? Who dumped who here? I'm guessing he got rid of you. Something doesn't smell right. Tell us more.

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A female reader, blessed_or not United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

blessed_or not agony auntBoy this question takes me back a few lines down memory lane,I was with a man for 8 years had two children with him.the only good thing was the sex but now i am a happily married women to a man who can make feel good during sex and all the day in between.As women we deserve better then just only being happy during sex....

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