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Why is sex so good only after emotionally intense moments?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *_Faylene_Mandie_Marie writes:

Why is it that the most incredible sex/love making seems to take place after an emotional moment between two madly in love people???? I mean we have been together a little over six months but we have known each other a year, and the sex is usually really good, but he doesn't last long enough for me, except when we have an emotional moment...then we get all hyped up and he makes love to me in a way that feels like our souls intertwine and we are one in body and spirit why is it only then that the sex is so incredible, and other times he can barely go 5mins???????????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

I'm not entirely sure why, but if I had to make an educated guess, I would say that sex and emotions are tightly woven together for women and for men, even if they do not realize it. My husband and I have been together for 18 years and what you describe is true for us still. Any emotional situation, ranging from joy to grief seems to highten our love-making.

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A male reader, guywithlove United States +, writes (10 August 2009):

well...from my experience i can tell u that we miss a lot of things when we stress a lot , for eg, a fight...when it is over everything looks so new and the mind gets back to where it always wanna go..and i guess some different kinds of hormones are excreted by our body and it makes us more horny and fills us with feelings of lust for the person we are in love with...its good but if we do it everyday..it goes down...

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