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writes:Hey I am 23 years old and can not figure out why my husband to be dont want me anymore. We have been together going in 4 years now but in the past 5 months he has not wanted me sexually. What is wrong with me? What can I do to change this? He is 22 years old. We use to have sex aleast 2-3 times a week. If I dont start it we dont have sex. So it has gotten to where i dont want to start it. I want to see how long it takes. It seems like it doesnt matter to him. What do I do. I need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kavanna  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 well yes you have to talk to him but do it slick lol umm asked him if you guys could talk them ask question around the problem get him ready for a huge question some guys hate talking bout sex with there lady!! tell him its a game u ask a question then he ask one youll no when its time to spring the question on him
then asked him do he not find u interesting wait as long as u could for him to answer then after he answer explain to him why u are asking the question like because your not sexing me like u use to and you dont look at me with that flame.... hell answer quick then tell him that u notice that u all ways start sex and wait tell he answer let him no you dis like being the leader in bed and wish he take control
and sorry to say after that if it dont work it is a bit of a posibility he is cheating but if he still around like he use to be hopefuly its not a chick behind it when my dude start acting funny i talked and told him how i felt and things changed he told me that work was stressful and he was thinking bout maken money
hopeful my answer help you xoxo vanna
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): I think you should talk to him and see wats going on maybe then you will get answer........ n sorry to say but there is a posibility he is cheating on you my ex boyfriend did the same thing your husband is doing and i found him with another girl. well i wish you luck
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