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She doesn't give great handjobs...how can I tell her?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ladies i need some advice i don't want to upset my girlfriend but i don't like the way she gives me handjobs she never pulls my foreskin all the way back to stimulate my bellend my ex did this and felt great any ideas of how you would tackle this please

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009):

I dont know how to give my boyfriend a handjob either but he was always encouraging to me and gave me advice

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

Thanks for your advice hopefully it will help. Also basschick she does give good blowjobs an she pulls my foreskin back to great effect Haha

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (11 August 2009):

Basschick agony auntHand jobs are difficult. But can she give good blow jobs? Now that is a question worth answering. If she can give good head, forget the hand. xoxox

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A female reader, hijacked_dignity United States +, writes (11 August 2009):

hijacked_dignity agony auntOk. First off. Don't tell her that was how your ex did it. No girl ever wants to hear you compare her to your exes. What you do is when she's about to give you a handjob, just guide her hand along. Tell her what you do like! You don't have to be negative toward the way she does do it, she just needs to know what personally satisfies you. How is she supposed to know if you don't say? She can't read your mind. :)

So just wait for the mood to strike and guide her along gently. Then she'll know for the next time as well, and you'll both get a kick out of it.

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A female reader, trotman68 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2009):

trotman68 agony auntI have to be honest about this, I had to be pulled over the Same thing. (Embarressed, as Im 40 and you would think, i should know what to do) Some women would take you saying it wrongly so please be careful. I would if i was you, when she does it again for you, just say let me show you how I like it done, she will be fine with it. My friends got me to practice on a hairspray tin.lol. I got there in the end.lol.x pleas let me know how it turns out for you.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

Just tell her that it feels really really good to pull your foreskin back all the way. You don't have to say anything about not liking what she does. She'll probably be relieved to know what you really like! I know I used to be a little concerned about hurting him by doing anything that seemed to extreme, because it seems like a sensitive area so we need to be told what's good :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

you could say to her..oh when i'm doing it myself i found that..... that way your telling her but not informing her about your ex coz it's insulting to tell your girlfriend that.

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