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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How do I confront my 10 year old daughter about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Is it possible that my 10 year old daughter could be having sexual relations with her 12 year old boyfriend. If so how do i confront her, do i just ignore it or do i beet the living crap out of him. Can she get pregnant at 10. I've seen them both ...

A bloody mess! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I had sex with my girlfriend recently during her period. During the act a lot of her blood got on me. Mostly around my penis and hands. I did wear a condom and several months ago we were both tested for STD's and the results were clean. Should...

My hubby and I have had a great sex life, now he's getting a bit unconventional, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My husband has a very active imagination when we have sex, he always has. His chatter has always been part of what I enjoyed during sex. But lately he's been acting out some of his sexual fantasies. I don't know what to think. He pushes his ...

My wife talks about sleeping with her female friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I am 42 married. My wife is 30 we have a very good sex life but just lately my wife talks about sleeping with her female friend. What do you think of this?...

I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks ...

I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?...

My girlfriend has gone off sex, how can I get the intimacy back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and myself have been together for about 2 and a half years. I am 37 and have been married in the past, she is 32 and has also been past married. My issue is after a year of amazing sex and intimate encounters, my girlfriend has lost ...

Should I arrange a threesome? Does she really agree to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi For the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me. Our s...

What seems to be happening in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I have a gal frend whom we have been moving out for a long tyme,we are planning to get married soon.She loves me so much aswel as her parents,they alwaz ask her abt me.Unfortunately she got transfered from her workplace to a place far away from ...

For guys: Does a woman's vagina size matter? Does it vary if she's tall or short?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - On sex and pleasure, Does it matter the size of a women down south? If she is taller or smaller her vagina will be better for him or not? How about the lenght/long/short of the vagina, does this matter to a guy? Does this only matter to EGO driven ...

Has my penis replaced my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - My relationships keep failing. I meet up with lots of girls, and we tend to have sex within the first couple of weeks. This carrys on for a while then my woman starts critising me, so I try to do what she say, so she still have horny sex with me. I ...

His affection has cooled off. What is happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hello I'm new here, and I really need your help.. I'm in a relationship, and have been with him for 15 months now.. It is a long-distance relationship, but we've been doing fine really until about 4 months ago, when I was doing my A Levels and did...

We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?...

Attracted to female bodies but prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am attracted to female bodies but I prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean for me?...

I feel totally rejected - couldn't we have discussed it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Was dating a guy and we got on famously, walks, meals, fun nights out together and we really clicked. We fancied each other quite a lot and then after a few weeks made arrangements to sleep together. Anyway I've always found that when I sleep wi...

How can I remedy my erectile problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am Visually impaired, partially deaf and a wheelchair user. I struggle to get girlfriends because of erectile dysfunction, even though I often get aroused my erection isn't firm enough. What can I do to remedy my problems?...

My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...

D`oes he hate the way I taste?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hey My boyfriend of 5 months went down on me for the first time ever this weekend, all was goin great, until afterwards he said i 'taste like a bitch'. what i wanna know, is this a bad thing? does he hate the way i taste? this has me really c...

Confused about the reasons for sex. Are you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - can somebody please tell me why people think sex is so paramount in a relationship. when u split, i find that family things are the most hurtfull once gone. sex is a physical release which can be so special with the person you love and not when it ...

When I have sex with my new bf sometimes I bleed, what could it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hey girls...i need help..okay i lost my virginity in the beginning of this year and now i have an older boyfriend and when we have sex somethimes i bleed [embarassing]but what does it mean? ...

My husband watches gay porn and doesn't know that I know. Is he gay???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - my husband watches gay porn and hides a dildo from me. we have been married 4 years and we have 2 kids. this has been happening off and on for 5 years. he does't know that i know about it. is he gay or bi? what should i do? i just moved across the ...

Why is he accusing me of having chlamydia???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - my so called boyfriend has accused me of having chlamydia,which is so untrue,why would he say this unless he has got it and thats why he`s done research i havent got any symptoms to indicate this and ive recently had tests which dont show anything ...

Is there a psychological impotency?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - is there a psychological impotency?...

He has a low sex drive. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfrined for 3 months, he is 28. We had sex a few times a month or so after we got together (3 to be precise) but since then we haven't had any, not even any foreplay. It is a struggle just to get him to give ...

There are large gaps between times we are physically intimate. Why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and I have an amazing time together. We feel really close to each other. However, there are very large gaps between our physical initimacy. When I ask him if it us or if he is uncertain about me - he doesn't hesitate to say 'No'. He ...

We have been having sex for 3 months but she is still tight. How can we loosen her up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Hi me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and we started having sex three months ago and for sum reason she is as tight as the first time we did it any advice on how to 'loosen her up' cheers...

Was this an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Ive had never had an orgasm before ,but when I was having sex i felt like I had to pee ,what could this be?...

How do I achieve a g spot orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - how do i acheive an orgasm through g spot i can climax through clitorol...

How to get her a way to wear lingerie

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to bits but I've always had this fetish for her to wear lingerie like a a nice corset etc. Seems like no matter what approach I take, she just doesn't want to. I have no problems being n...

I'm not a virgin, but I'm scared of having sex with my new bf, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. And we dated years ago in jr. high too. ne way. We havent ever had sex yet, i mean we have done other stuff like kiss and hes fingered me and i've given him a hand job. but now he wants to ha...

Umm ... was it sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriends and i were fooling around the other night. it started as just humping, i had no underwear on, but he had boxers on. Then he took them off. we did the same humping motion, and his penis touched my vagina, an went in, but i dont know if ...

My self-consciousness in interfering with my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex. i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex...

Could this be a mommy complex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...

He likes sex with me but does not want to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i badly love a guy. according to him he is also loves me. he is working in a placement services. so he called me for a job in janubry but after that we didn't have any contact. in may he was again calling me for a job. after that we was talking on ...

How do I maintain a decent erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hi I am a 49 year old and have been married for 27 years. lately i have been having an issues getting hard. my wife loves sex and loves forplay. this can last upto 30 mins and is very open. during this time my penis only gets semie hard, unless i...

We have oral sex but she doesn't want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me 1month ago.she say's she is not happy and I am not the one. we have been talking on the phone 3 times a week. We decided to go out we went shopping then dinner then to my house we had oral sex. But she still says ...

Is nsa sex ok with my friend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...

Am I sinning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

27 October 2007 (M) - ..What are religous views on masturbating? I don't know if im in the wrong?...

I have strong feelings for both, should I let one go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I had fallen for a guy in the city where I used to live. But because I was moving, we never have made anything more of our relationship but have kept in close contact. I began dating someone 2 months ago where I now live. I'm so torn between who I ...

How long before these buises disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - hi...this is kind of embarrassing but ill say it anyways. My BF and i were in the back seat the other day and he started fingering me. He can usually get three fingers in but he wanted to try four so he did. The problem is it really hurt and felt ...

How do I participate in 'Christian' sex and satisfy a woamn after marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

27 October 2007 (M) - i really would like to know as to how i can have sex after marriage. there are different styles of having sex this days however what are the right ways or styles of sex that are accepted for a christian couple to practise. please i need any respond ...

We've had excellent sex but recently while in the act his errection disappears. Is it me? (he insists not)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - my bf of one year and i have amazing mind blowing sex, but just recently while we are having sex his errection disappears. This has happened on more than one occasion and when it does he gets quite frustrated with the whole ordeal. He says hes not ...

I can't cum - am I weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - hi, my friends tell me all the time that they masturbate and that its really nice adn we also discuss there relationship with boys like which boys made them cum the fastest and who was the best and fingering and other things but i have never ha...

I can turn myself on, but not with him (?)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've been going out with my bf for 2 weeks and we've become really close really quickly, and our relationship is pretty sexually intense you could say, although we haven't actually had sex yet. He says to me that he sees it as a failure ...

I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, ...

How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?...

What is the right age to start having sex?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...

It used to be my nervousness, now it's the condom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I got over how nervous I was, but now the condom ruins my erection! What do I tell her? what do I do? For those who need more of an explanation, It used to be nervousness that caused me to lose an erection, but I took care of that and now when I p...

Love affairs from afar, circumcision, and masturbation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - First, I'm in a distant relationship and love my gal too much. This is what's causing da problem. I think about her to the extent of my head aching. I miss her so much that it really hurts. Sometimes i feel she doesn't love me as i do because ...

Why is it that at the age of 21 I've never had a boyfriend, been kissed or had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel ...