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Umm ... was it sex?

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Question - (28 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriends and i were fooling around the other night. it started as just humping, i had no underwear on, but he had boxers on. Then he took them off. we did the same humping motion, and his penis touched my vagina, an went in, but i dont know if we had intercourse. I had no alcohol, im a virgin and dont know how to tell if we had sex or not!

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (1 December 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntIt was sex BEFORE it went in. Whay you are asking though is was it sexual intercouse. The amswer is yes....it went in. Even if it only penetrated an inch it was intercourse

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

you had sex, but it sounds like you didn't get much out of it. you sound way too young to be having sex anyway. by the way, if you have to ask the question if you did it or not, you shouldn't be doing it!

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A female reader, gold digga United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

gold digga agony auntthis is weird, this is exactly what happend with me and my ex, we were fooling around same as you and it went in and i told him to get it out but i classed that as sex a lil bit but then a few days later we went the whole way and thats when i classed it as when i lost my virginity, so i would say it was sex but untill you do it properlly i wouldnt say you have had "true" sex. x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007):

Sex to me includes but is not limited to penetration. Hence "sexual penetration". It can't be penetration, if it's not sexual eh? [shrugs] Other forms of sex are [drum roll] oral sex - hence "oral SEX", anal SEX, and of course, foreplay isn't really sex, but it is the act of getting aroused and becoming sexual, so I guess it's still considered sex.

So NO, you did not have sexual penetration, but you, IMO obviously, did engage in a sex-activity.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2007):

shania agony auntIf he penetrated you,then yes,you had sexual intercourse.

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