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writes:HeyMy boyfriend of 5 months went down on me for the first time ever this weekend, all was goin great, until afterwards he said i 'taste like a bitch'. what i wanna know, is this a bad thing? does he hate the way i taste?this has me really confusedany advice would be greatly appreciatedAlso, i wanna try and dominate him, any good tips out there? something to really drive him wild lolthanksx.X.x Reply to this Question
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reader, ced  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 trust me if he really loved you he would have never call u that. a part of love is loving everything about your mate so if he could say that to you that means he really dont care about your feelings. only five month and he already said something like that imagine in the future. he has no respect for you. his the type of person that you can never trust cause he really dont love you. you dont gotta do nothing, he wants something from you so next time just he needs something just let him know exactly what you felt when he said that to you. theres too many good guys out there waiting to treat you right. just take you time cause he not worth it. my ex would have walked right out the door if i ever said something like that and i never did cause i loved her but like i said he gotta love everything about you for it to work unless your just having fun
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reader, GossipGirl  +, writes (30 October 2007):
If you think he dose think you tast bad then take a tic tak or a peace of gum and just relax!
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reader, bliss-xo +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Really the answer to both of your questions is to ask him. We can't be sure what he meant because people from different places and upbrinings use different terms or terms have different meaning for others. Also, we weren't there so we don't know how he exactly said it, i.e. tone of voice, cercumstances, his personality.. etc.. Ask him what he meant by it.
If it turns out he doesn't like the taste, i read a good tip the other day...
Try taking a nice warm or hot bath together and then have him do it, that way you are both nice and clean, its relaxing and there is lots of 'fun' and arousal that can happen there...
As for domination, really you need to ask him about that. Everyone is different.. we all have different sexual preferences and different things that turn us on. As another person has already said "what drives one man wild may completely freak out another". Thats very true.
When you have a sexual partner its best that you both learn what one another likes, and you guys have been going out for quite a long time.. this is stuff you guys really should get to know about one another. if one of you is being pleasured and the other one isn't ( or neither of you) then it's not going to work out. It's a partnership... explore what one another likes, ask about each other's fantasies and sexual preferences.
Good luck :)
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reader, gmapeaches +, writes (30 October 2007):
 everyone is right.. you have to ask him.. however i have to say for me.. i wouldn't care how he meant it.. it sounds degrading and i would lose him.. are you guys just sex buddies or are you in a real relationship?
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 to be honest i'm not sure i would take that as a compliment but you would only know for sure by asking him. a lot of it rests on how he said it too. you could probably tell by his tone if it was a good thing or not. if not, he could've said it a bit more sensitively though!
and as for the dominatrix thing, the only way you will know how to drive him wild is to ask him. what drives one man wild may completely freak out another. its probably not the answer you were looking for but its true
brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): I agree that you should talk to him and find out if he thinks you taste bad. Good communication is key to a successful relationship. If he doesn't like the way you taste, your diet can affect how you taste. One change you might make is to eat more fruit. Do some research - there are several things that women (and men) can eat to make their "output" taste better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): Tell him you slept with the washing machine while he was out.
This will confuse him back.
Good luck
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hi.
I think the best way to find out what he meant is by asking him. I'm sure there are a couple of ways he could have meant what he said, but only by asking him will you know for sure.
Good luck!
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 October 2007):
 I'd never heard someone saying that. I don't know, the way younger people talk today, if that was a good thing or a bad thing.
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