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My self-consciousness in interfering with my life

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Question - (28 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex.

i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex.

Theres a part of me im not ok with- boobs.

im not skinny but not fat, but for my size my boobs are small, they are 32A.

i would be ok with that because i am comfortable around him and i dont think he minds if im not a twig or huge chested but

my boobs are weird. theyre pointyish with not much of cleavage in between. there is no way hes seeing them.

its embarassing and keeping me from having sex. will the shape of my boobs change to a more normal tear drop or round shape? if so, when? i dont want them keeping me from doing what i want

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A female reader, Emmajane United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2007):

Emmajane agony auntWhen I started my sex life I was like that. Now, some of the guys I meet tell me they dream of girls who look like you do, so please understand there are all shapes and sizes of body, and it's how you feel mental;ly more than how you look physically that matters.

Enjoy your guy. He soundsw like a nice guy. If it's illegal to be in a sexual relationship whjere you live just be careful. And use condoms if you have full sex. Get some in case he doesn't.

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A female reader, sweetnsoursauce United States +, writes (29 October 2007):

sweetnsoursauce agony auntthere's nothing wrong with the way you are, and as you grow, so will your boobs and they will gain a more normal shape, but it's nothing you should worry about anyways. so what? your boyfriend won't care.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi.

bearing in mind that you are between 13 and 15, i would wait another until you are 16 before you have a full sexual relationship, your breast still have time to developing and that should not be a problem, some woman are still not properly developed until they reach eighteen so you have years to go yet, dont worry.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007):

Im not a girl, so.. i cant really help with the "wearing different bra's" bit.

But being a guy, i know that during sex, "pointy" boobs aint gunna stop him!

He wont care, honestly.

And if you trust him then go for it.

Its like..

If they guy had a slightly smaller penis than others...

would it stop you from making love to the guy you love for the 1st time?

=/ didnt think so..

HONESTLY

Go for it. =]

I'd wish you luck, but truthfully, you wont need it =]

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A female reader, kutie0712 United States +, writes (28 October 2007):

If you want to do something then you shouldnt be so self conscious, having sex with someone should be love he wont mind about something that is slightly different if he really loves you

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