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male
age
41-50,
*cofield
writes:I have a gal frend whom we have been moving out for a long tyme,we are planning to get married soon.She loves me so much aswel as her parents,they alwaz ask her abt me.Unfortunately she got transfered from her workplace to a place far away from me.Its an 8hours driven from where I work.She alwz calz me telling me how she misses me.We spent a full month without seeing each other beacuse we were both fasting,but we could communicate on phone,daily.After fasting she came back for a weekend.When we made love,she didnt seem to be with the earge like she used to have,she was so dry,while I was romancing her,she kept on romancing herself and me aswell(a little)When I reached climax she hadnt,so I helped her reach but its seemed like she wasnt going to.I became tired and gave up.She began romancing herself till she reached climax.I was confused.This had never happend before.We tried it again at night.The same thing happened.She was very dry till she finished by herself.She told me that she had discovered that two weeks ago,that she can raech climax by herself.she said it while crying..What seems to be happening in our relationship????I need yo help.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hi there.
Sorry to hear about your problem. It seems to be only the sex, so that is what i'll talk about. Women in general have dryer days. This is not your fault. For women it is mostly a mental thing, but sometimes (not often) it may be because of medical reasons. If it is the former, you need to re-assure her that you love her regardless of whether she's dry or not, and whether she can climax by only penetration or not. You have to assure her that there is nothing wrong with her, and that you will go through this together. In the meantime, try some lubricant as this might ease things. Don't make a scene about it. You can even say that it is you who wants to try something new, and let her please herself if she wants. There is nothing wrong with that, and might even add to your pleasure. If my experience is anything to go by, then she will love being penetrated, while you encourage her to please herself. Remember - it is probably not you...
Good luck.
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