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writes:So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, yet I still have a strong desire and some reasons why I want to have sex. What do you think? And does it really hurt as much as people say?3 Me Reply to this Question
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reader, xxbaybeegal  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 well basically the questions on you if you feel ready to have sex then why not. sex only hurts if the man/boy you have sex with is putting to much presure in the activity. this is your choice if your ready then so be it.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (27 October 2007):
 if youve got worries in your mind i would say dont go for it. it may hurt you depending on the guy but if your not in a stable relationship i would definetely say no. and at 16 what are you worrying about you've got time to find yourself a decent guy and do what you want. there will be times when there are urges but try and distract yourself.
regret is a deep thing to live with...trust me i do...
good luck
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (27 October 2007):
if youve got worries in your mind i would say dont go for it. it may hurt you depending on the guy but if your not in a stable relationship i would definetely say no. and at 16 what are you worrying about you've got time to find yourself a decent guy and do what you want. there will be times when there are urges but try and distract yourself.
regret is a deep thing to live with...trust me i do...
good luck
x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): Everyone has strong desires to have sex. The intelligent learns to wait because it's too easy to give in to the desire and just feel like dirt afterwards. You can only plan to lose your virginity if you are getting married otherwise you should wait.
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reader, Mr. Amazing +, writes (27 October 2007):
Just wait it out, sex only seems like a big deal because you haven't done it. But just like everything else in the world once you do it you're just like everyone else. It's your virginity that makes you special. Peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): having sex is a big step and no one can tell you weather its rite or wrong only you can deside that. i am only 16 myself and have already had sex, i lost my virginity wen i was 14, and i regreted it, not because i wasnt ready but because i didnt realy love the person that i had sex with. i wish i had waited. your 1st time should be special and with somone you love very much. but as i said onli you can decide to have sex or not, and to anser your question if you are truley ready and want to have sex then it dusent hurt.
hope this helps and remember no matter wat u decide be safe xxx
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