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writes:I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel like Drew Barrymore but without the happy ending ha! I keep telling myself it's because I'm so caught up in my academics that this is happening but I really just wonder is it school? Is it me? I know I'm not the skinniest or prettiest but when I see other women around me that are, not to be mean, larger I just can't help but beat down on myself.Can anyone explain this to me?? Because I feel hopeless.Thanks =)
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reader, yow9999  +, writes (31 October 2007):
look this is good thing that u have no been kissed had done sex or any other stuff these are all shit before marrige after marrige it is ok u r on the right way
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reader, hmm...  +, writes (26 October 2007):
YOU ARE NOT HOPELESS! This is one of the most normal of many mails I red till now. You haven't felt close to anybody till now but that will come. Just patience and live up to your standards. Don't fall for the story about experience and changing guys or that it's going to be a prince that will pop up from nowhere. It is going to be somebody you might know now. He is now blury to you, but the more you learn about that person the more you are amazed and suddenly he is like you know him all life. The fact you didn't have anybody till now might mean you have high emotional inteligence and do not fall for your hormones or asumptions but facts. I tell you as a man I adore girls like that. They are best girlfriends and fantastic to share spiritual and physical space with. I would like you to know that there is a lot, a lot of guys wanting to know somebody like you so just relax and it will happen itself.
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reader, Damon +, writes (26 October 2007):
Have you ever thought maybe the guys you date don't really understand you or how alone you can feel because you are different.believe me I understand.
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reader, StaceyMarie  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 All good things come when you dont expect them to. I find that if your not looking for something then that something usually ends up finding you!
You're still young and have your whole life to meet, kiss and have sex with men.
Be patient and eventually he'll come.
Take Care x
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi,
this is a refreshing change to hear that someone has not done the things, that most people write and complain about, good for YOU,do not worry, you have not come across that special person yet, the one who will whisk you off your feet,and turn your life into a loving and wonderful place to be,(sorry to go on, bit of a romantic myself)your only 21 and have loads of time to find the right person for you, just keep going out and enjoying your life, then one day out of the blue, there he will be and you will be so glad you waited.
good luck.
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reader, YellooFish +, writes (26 October 2007):
You are so not hopeless!!
You dont need to have been kiss, sexed or defiinatly have had a man to not be hopeless!!
If you really want a man who is absulutly fantastic and true happiness you will find it comes at the right time so dont force time!
Wishing all the best,
Yelloofish
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