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Archived questions from: January, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I dread the thought of my boyfriend wanting sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7240 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - Whats wrong with me, why dont i want to have sex anymore? me and my boyfriend of 5 years are doing great, madly and passionatly in love, but for some reason, i just dont want to have sex. Once we start, its great and feels good and i like it, but i ...

My new man is dangerously obsessed with my sexual past

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - I was living with my partner of 6 years when I met someone else through a sports hobby, he was my instructor.There was very clearly something between us which is why after about years deliberation from my side and much discussion with the new man, ...

Confused about cum

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7236 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - Whenever I have an orgasm I don't cum. Where is the cum? When my boyfriend performs oral sex on me I tell him I am cumming, then I have an orgasm, but no cum. He asks me why, and I don't know what to tell him. How can I solve this problem?...

I have a hard time having orgasm during intercourse... Am I normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my husband for about 6 years. I have a hard time having orgasms when we have sex. I have to masturbate the same time we are having sex in order to have an orgasm. Is this normal? ...

Can't decide between current boyfriend or new guy... But sex with both is lacking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7240 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - Help! I have been in a serious relationship for about 6 years now we live together in his house. I have been having doubts about whether I’m doing the right thing for a couple of years. Due to a change in my b/f's circumstances everything...

Our sex life is now miserable and I found a depressing text from him to his mom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my current boyfriend for over eleven months, we are both students and are in our final year. When we first got together we were so close and now we have a great friendship except at the moment little things seem to niggle at us and ...

Big problem: No sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7236 days ago

28 January 2005 (?) - I need advice, as i feel like i am starting to go mad constantly worrying about my problem. I have been with my boyfriend and we have an amazing relationship.We are constantly telling each other how much we love each other, we hardly spend any time...

I am gagging for it 24/7... Anything I can take to give my boyfriend a rest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7244 days ago

27 January 2005 (?) - hi , i suffer from very high libio and am having real problems with my boyfriend .. i guess our relationship is the opposit to the rest of the world ... i wondered if you know about any products for women that will stop me from gagging for it all ...

Wobbly legs when my boyfriend gives me oral pleasure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7236 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have just started to get comfortable with being intimate with each other and we have started to give each other oral sex. This is not the problem I am totally comfortable with both giving and recieving and really enjoy it -- ma...

Should we have sex or wait until he gets the all-clear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7245 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - hello i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months and we are planning to have sex but he has found out he has genital warts does that mean if we want sex we will have to wait till he gets the all clear or can we still have sex if we use ...

69 worries

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7246 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - my boyfriend wants to have oral sex in the 69 position altough this turns me on, it really scares me as well. we've done every thing else. but the thing is is i've never had anyone go down on me. i'm worried that i will smell and taste horrible. ...

Size of the average penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7246 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm going to ask you a question you probaly get asked quite a lot but before you answer this has nothing to to with sex its purely based on penis size. At what point does a penis become small? I'm 5 inches long and its also thin. Am I smal...

My guy's panty fetish is getting out of control!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - hi. i've been dating this guy for over a year and he is in many ways the best man i've ever known. but he has a panty fetish that seems to be getting more intense. at first he liked to smell my panties and that helped him get off during sex. now, ...

Scared of losing my boyfriend because of my low sex-drive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7237 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Im a 19yr old girl and Ive had a boyfriend for 2years now and I love very much but the problem is Ive got a really low sex drive, I never want sex its not that I dont fancy my boyfriend anymore its just Im never in the mood and I should be having ...

My boyfriend's sleazy collection of nudey cut-outs he keeps under his bed (and he's 22)!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - I am 20 years old and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years, my problem is not really our relationship because we get on fine. My real problem is that he keep photos of naked women under his bed that he gets from mens mags and news ...

I just can't come during sex with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7248 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - i have a problem... Ive been with my boyfriend for around a year now, were really happy together and i love him to bits, but ive never in my life been able to cum, i love having sex with him, i dont fell like he is doing anything wrong, i get all ...

Not had any nookie since I got pregnant... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - hi, my name is N i have been married for 3 years now and have recently given birth to my second child. My husband is a police officer and so he is constantly working and i feel we are drifting apart. I'm also concerned about our sex life, as we ...

I just do not enjoy sex. At all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7247 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I have been married to my husband for 2 years, I love him very much and I am still attracted to him. When we first started dating we had a great sex life but now I just dont feel like it (I hardly ever feel sexually aroused anymore). I realise that ...

Boyfriend hasn't orgasmed during sex with me, am I not good enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7249 days ago

22 January 2005 (?) - my latest boyfriend hasn't orgasmed while having sex with me. is something wrong with me? is something wrong with him? i feel like i might not be good enough, but i haven't had this problem in the past. this is the third time it's happened. ...

Help, I'm a potential tongue-twister in need of advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7248 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and i both really want to have oral sex, but i keep putting it off because i dont really know what to do. if anyone could tell me what is th most pleasureable way for the girl, that would be appreciated. ...

My boyfriend can't stay hard enough to do the nasty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7242 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - hey me and my boyfriend have started to have sex but he seems to have trouble keeping it hard long enough to get inside me. i dont know his sexual history but i dont know what to do because he has apologised and i say it doent matter and i love him ...

What is the difference between and STI and an STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - what is the diffrence between an sti and an std? can you get an std through sex? please help and say becouse my doctor says i might have an std. ...

Think I may have an infection "down below"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7251 days ago

19 January 2005 (?) - i think i might have an infection down below. i hurts when i go to the toilet sometimes and i have very smelly discharge, and lots of it. also my pubic hair is very itcy. what can i do and what could it be. i am really worried and cant talk to ...

Scared of sex with my boyfriend... Don't want to be a virgin forever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - hiya. i really want to have sex with my boyfriend but i am scared i will do something wrong. and will it hurt. my boyfriend says if i dont want to have sex we can do oral but i am also scared i will do this wrong. i am worried that becouse of this ...

I'm married to a wonderful woman... But she has just put a permanent ban on sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7253 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 22 years, she means the world to me and my 2 children, we are both now 43. My problem is, she doesn't want to have sex anymore, she said the problem is not with me, and that if I wanted to have s...

Should I feel flattered or upset that boyfriend only suffers premature ejaculation with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7252 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - i have been in a relationship now for 18 months and although he is fantastic and couldnt fault him in any way he has a big problem with premature ejaculation, ive printed stuff off the computer about this & know that it is normal, me & my boyfriend ...

Does my boyfriend want sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7256 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - Does my boyfriend want sex with me? We have been going out for over 2 months, and recently he's been doing a lot of moves on me. Eg touching and squeezing my breasts, whilst making out with me, and breathing heavely. And sometimes lifting my top ...

I've got no pubic hair... Now everyone knows!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - i am 13 and have no pubic hair at all its so embarrising and i dont want to tell or talk to anyone about it. please help me as my ex boyfriend found this out and has spread it all round my school, people took the mick out of me for a week i got so ...

Did I move too fast with my new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7256 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - I started to see this guy I have been aquainted with for a year, it's been about a month since we've started seeing each other. The first night we hung out we stayed up till 10:30 am talking, fliting, and most of all laughing! anyway we liked each ...

My boyfriend prefers love with himself, not with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7257 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 2 half years, the relationship has been fairly good, although, there has always been issues with sex. My partner is very sexualy inexperienced, having only been in 2 relationships be...

We have the sex-live of a 50-year old couple... And we're in our 20s

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7140 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I'm 21 and he is 23. We get along great and are basically living together at the moment - He rents an appartment in my parents house. However, about six months he seemed to loose interest in ...

I orgasm too soon during sex with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7257 days ago

12 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, she is 26 and I am 22, we were both virgins before we met and recently both decided to take the next step and have sex. My main concern is that I ejaculate too early... During oral sex ...

Is my role-play fetish normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am female and married. I have a fetish about being spanked by my partner for being naughty. I like to dress up as a school girl and pretend that I have been sent to the headmaster for the cane or slipper. Is this normal? Sarah...

My husband never takes the initiative... Feel so sad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - I'm 28 and I've been married for 5 years. I love my husband and I know he loves me too. I find him very sexy and since we first began our relationship I've always loved it when we make love and are together. He's always been less enthusiastic abo...

Sex with my partner has always been bad... But now it turns out he saw a dominatrix!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for 2 years. The sex has always been pretty bad really - very infrequent and of bad quality. He seems extremely frigid and scared to make any moves and it has really frustated me! We have discussed it lots of times and ...

Is there a pill to put off periods for a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7252 days ago

9 January 2005 (?) - Heya i just wanted to know if you knew of any pill or something that can prevent your periods for around about a week. Its just because i am due when i am going away for the weekend and i could do without the hassle of periods. This isn't really ...

I'm 19 and am not sexually experienced at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7205 days ago

8 January 2005 (?) - I've never had a serious boyfriend before and I am not sexually experienced at all. I'm 19 years old and I have never even given head. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now & he knows my sexual history and is perfectly okay with ...

Couldn't quite manage it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7265 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - i recently tried sex with my girlfriend of 1 year. we are both 17. however, when i got to actual penetration, my penis wasn't as hard as before and i couldn't enter her. we had to stop. that was 2 weeks ago. why did that happen to me? is there ...

My boyfriend and I have sex once a month... If I'm lucky!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7215 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 yrs. We have been living together for 6months. Before we moved in together we would have sex all the time in the last 4 months it has slowly diminished to basically once a month if i am lucky. What do ...

I feel like I cannot satisfy my fiancé in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7265 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Me and my fiancé (21, 22)have sex maybe once a week.. just me inside of her doesn't feel good enough for her and she doesn't like using her hand so we use a vibrator to help even though I can get her to orgasm with me inside of her and her using the ...

I want to blow my girlfriend's mind during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7266 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - i want to please my girl friend by giving her mind blowing sex an makin her orgasm but i dont think i no how to do i mean she has orgasmed before cause she told me in a dicussion but i want to blow her away. i please her cause she looks like she...

I'm upset after I caught my boyfriend masturbating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - I have caught my boyfriend masturbating, which has upset me a great deal. We have a good relationship and our sex life is ok, so i dont understand why he feels the need to do this. It has upset me to a point that i can barely bring myself to leave...

Is sex with a virgin more fun than with a non-virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7007 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm in love with this girl, she is perfect. The thing is I'm a virgin and plan to stay that way untill i get married. Now my gf (the gal im in love with) is not a virgin, she admits to have been forced into sex only once in her life. I think ...

Worried I don't last long enough with my girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - Iam 20 years old in a long term relationship. My girl and I have finally had sex after about 4 years. its been hard to hold back all that time. We were bth virgins and finally we both have shared our virginity. The first 3 or 4 times we had sex ...

Not yet had full sex with my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7210 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - i have been married for 5 months now and i still didn't have a complete sexual relationship because every time my huband tries to enter his penis inside my vagina i feel afraid and my muscles contract and the opening closes. i went to a female ...

I'm a girl who has difficulty reaching orgasm with my g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7246 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - i am a 24 year old lesbian and have been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years. the question that i have is whenever we get imtimate the only way i can orgasm is if we use toys. i can never get off if she does oral on me. i dont know if im not ...

Sex with girlfriend on her period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7264 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are 16 but we rarely see each other, alone. But now and again she is on her period. problem- I don't have a problem with having sex during her period but she does. In theory if you can catch it at the start or very end it ...