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writes: I have been with my current boyfriend for over eleven months, we are both students and are in our final year. When we first got together we were so close and now we have a great friendship except at the moment little things seem to niggle at us and we have a row. This lasts for about ten minutes and we make up and its as if nothing has happened- back to our old selves. He also lives with his best friend (a bloke) and they do everything together - like go out for lunch or play all the time on playstation together I did not mind it at first but now i feel a littel jealous as we do not go out hardly ever but sit in and watch a DVD or the Tv. Also at the beginning our sex life was great and nearly every night - now he rolls over and tells me he is too tired, so now we have sex about every two weeks if I am lucky! I love this guy and I dont know why he is being like this at all. It upsets me. He also talks about the future with me and says things like twenty years from now we will be together which make me happy as I do want mary him and I love him so much. Recently his mum sent him a text joking asking if she should start saving for a wedding - i saw his reply and it said "not for quite a while if at all." This has made me really uneasy about our relationship as if he does not want to commit am I wasting my time or how should I interrpret that? it is one thing to me and another to his mum - please can you give me advise on what to do.
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reader, sheshe445 +, writes (27 December 2005):
 listen its ok he probally just doesn't feel all that ready as you are to commit to a real relationship but thats ok just talk to him about what he does that makes hi soooooo tired that you can't enjoy sexual intercourse anymore! maybe its someone else on the side? you better start talking to him more!!!!!1
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reader, beenthere +, writes (19 December 2005):
the physical side of relationships does tend to dwindle after a while. it did with me and my partner but that was because he basically replaced me with a new computer but your situation seems that he's passed the excitement of a new relationship and is comfortable with you. i wouldn't take the text to his mum to heart. i told my parents i was nothing more than friends with a guy i'd known all my life, i've now been engaged to him for 2 years! you just need to find out what he really wants directly from him
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