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writes: my latest boyfriend hasn't orgasmed while having sex with me. is something wrong with me? is something wrong with him? i feel like i might not be good enough, but i haven't had this problem in the past. this is the third time it's happened.
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (23 January 2005):
The problem is a bit unusual, but therre can be a number of things at work here. Is he nervous, stressed, depressed, rushed? Has he been taking drugs or drinking alcohol? All these things can affect a man's sexual performance.If you've only have sex a few times, it could just be that he's worried about "doing it right" and getting distracted, or he may be used to certain types of stimulation that he uses when he masturbates. Ask him what you can do that will turn him on, then do it.
A reader, Ann, writes (22 January 2005): Suck and chew on his nipples and play with his anus while he is fucking you.
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