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writes: hi, my name is N i have been married for 3 years now and have recently given birth to my second child. My husband is a police officer and so he is constantly working and i feel we are drifting apart. I'm also concerned about our sex life, as we havent actually had sex or any kind of sexual interaction since i fell pregnant. I love my Husband and family very much and so i desperately want to know if theres anything i can do. Please help. Love norah xx
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reader, beenthere +, writes (19 December 2005):
blokes are very naive about this sort of thing. i did not have sex with my partner for a year. he seemed to go off me before he knew i was pregnant but then would barely touch me when he knew. the last time we had sex before the baby was born was last november, the baby was born in june and we did not have sex again til this november. i think my partner assumed we couldn't because i was pregnant and, afterwards has been terrified of getting me pregnant again. maybe if you explain that being pregnant does not automatically stop your natural desires and that sex won't hurt you or the baby, he will realise that it's ok.
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