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writes: Dear CupidI am female and married. I have a fetish about being spanked by my partner for being naughty. I like to dress up as a school girl and pretend that I have been sent to the headmaster for the cane or slipper.Is this normal?Sarah Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): Being that it is between you and a trusted partner and not with a multiple of strangers...it seems in hand.
It is different then the "norm" but I wouldn't become too concerned about it as if it is something your partner wants to do with you...it's fair game. As long as it is not doing any real harm to others...have at.
Perhaps your pain tolerance is above normal and actually does get you going; most people aren't that aware so congrats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): I think, Sarah most men would be delighted by your request!
Be aware though, the cane produces a breathtaking sting
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006): yes,it is perfectly normal,infact its really cool :D
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 January 2005):
 Hi Sarah,This is one of those slippery questions... What's perfectly "normal" in your sexual repertoire might shock me and what I regard as "normal" might make you laugh and point at me. But if you mean, "is this common?", then yes, it is. Spanking is a typical fantasy that has to do with surrendering control and falls into the category of things like gentle restraint. Relax; you're not a pervert!This fetish can also be fun and liberating, if your partner is into the fantasy. Fortunately for you, lots of men have fantasies about schoolgirls, so I very strongly suggest that if you mention this to your husband and tell him that dressing up like a schoolgirl and being spanked is a fantasy that really boils your potatoes, he'll be game to help out. Even if it's not his particular cup of tea, I think that finding something that really revs you up with be worth his effort.Have fun and good luck!
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