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writes: Whenever I have an orgasm I don't cum. Where is the cum? When my boyfriend performs oral sex on me I tell him I am cumming, then I have an orgasm, but no cum. He asks me why, and I don't know what to tell him. How can I solve this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2005): By "cum" I assume you are refering to ejaculate.If you are a female, it is perfectly normal for you not to experience an ejaculate. You say your boyfriend expects ejaculate, this leads me to assume you're male or you're female and your boyfeind has had a past relationship with a female who ejaculates, which is altogether possible.If your male, you may have a medical problem. Or you may have retroactive ejaculations. If this is the case, congratulations, this is a goal of many tantric sex practices. If this is the case, the ejaculate is pushed back into the bladder and is later expelled during urinating.
A reader, alex, writes (3 February 2005): I take it you are female? if you are then its perfectly normal. Your orgasm is you comming, it is in the main a very intense feeling for a woman . for a guy his orgasm also includes ejectualting sperm.You have nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2005): If you are a boy, then maybe you should see a doctor (unless you are a natural at tantric sex- good for you!). If you are a girl, that is perfectly normal...
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