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writes: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, she is 26 and I am 22, we were both virgins before we met and recently both decided to take the next step and have sex.My main concern is that I ejaculate too early... During oral sex I can last ages, I really enjoy it and have fantastic orgasms. I always make sure my girlfriend is satisfied too.When it comes to penetration I seem to be struggling, we've tried a few times but I seem to loose control and orgasm almost as soon as I go in, am I getting too excited?!? I want our sex life to be perfect and we've discussed it a few times, she says she is happy as I can still give her fantastic orgasms through oral sex, and thats enough for her but it makes me feel a little bit inadequate when I orgasm so soon when we try penetration!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2005): Hey,I offered my thoughts to a similar question recently - from a guy who was roughly your age.First, there is nothing wrong with you or your body. Your girl friend and sex is all very new to you, so enjoy this time together. Also, enjoy how your body is functioning and responding, since this time in your life is very fleeting. I would guess that if you came 5 mins after entering your girl, you would be hard and ready to go again after a few minutes. When you're my age (43), you'll be looking back fondly at your prime, so enjoy it now!Here's a suggestion: ask your girl friend to get you off during foreplay, and then spend some time kissing and fooling around, or do her for awhile. You will no doubt get another erection, and she can have some fun having you inside and you can relax. Just don't get hung up on when and how long it will take for you to finish the second time! This worked great for me and my girl friend years ago...Cheers
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