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writes: Me and my boyfriend have just started to get comfortable with being intimate with each other and we have started to give each other oral sex. This is not the problem I am totally comfortable with both giving and recieving and really enjoy it -- maybe too much, see when he goes down on me, I get so turned on that the muscles in the front of my legs spasm and contract so hard it's very painful.I have tried to relax but it just happens every time. It's getting to the stage where I'm making him stop before it feels good and faking it being pleasurable so as not to hurt his feelings. He's so good at at and I love him to pieces but when I can hardly walk up to four days afterwards, I just cant face letting him pleasure me. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2005): Try putting a pillow or two under ur bottom. it worked for me. i know the feeling it hurts. but this way he will feel more comfy cos he can move his head about more and make u feel even moooooooore good, and the pillows stop u from tensing. or try putting ur legs over his shoulders. dammmm! its making me all horny now, im gonna go get frisky with my man now. lol! hope it works for u. byeeeeeeeeeee
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2005): just to say i also have this problem and it has only been happening the last year or so,i cannot move my right leg at all after having climaxed after oral sex its very painfull and i fel like the blood suply is cut off to that part of my body.i suffer from sticky blood and have put it down to this,blood suply getting cut off at moment of climax,good luck sorry i couldnt help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2005): The only thing I can personally think could be causing this is because you tense up. I have heard of some people who have gotten blinding headaches during and after due to tensing up. I don't mean tensing up because you feel uneasy, but just simply because it makes you feel nice and intense. The only thing I could suggest you do is really relax, try not to tense up your body and just lay there and go with the flow. Let it feel and and enjoy it slowly and enjoy each moment for what you feel. Don't expect anything from it and let it take you where it will. I know you have said you have tried to relax, so maybe you could get your boyfriend to give you a gentle massage before hand and learn to relax from the beginning. Hope this helps.
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