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writes: Hi, I'm in love with this girl, she is perfect. The thing is I'm a virgin and plan to stay that way untill i get married. Now my gf (the gal im in love with) is not a virgin, she admits to have been forced into sex only once in her life. I think since i'm a virgin i deserve to have my only sex life with a virgin. This is where the question comes in.. IS sex with a virgin girl more sexually fun for a man than having sex with a non virgin? and does prolong non-sexual activity make the vagina once again very tight so as to give the feeling of first time sex again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): i believe that one partner should be more experienced than the other, and that it should not always be the man.
learning from your partner's greater experience, helps you to do it better, if you are not up to the standard of your partner's ex, your partner should be able to help you reach that up and enjoy yourselves on the learning curve
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2005): Hey,Congratulations on doing what is right for you, and not being pressured to go with the crowd. I was not a virgin when I met my girl friend, whom I later married, but she was. We did have sex before we were married; she now jokes that I "taught" her everything she knows (HBO has helped, too).If your girl friend is so perfect, than don't ruin it for yourself. It sounds like she is sharing with you that she was raped,or at the very least molested, which is a much larger psychological issue for her to deal with. Having you discussing her virginity and judging her is not fair and not right, so leave it alone. If she is not pressuring you or judging you for wanting to "hold out", than count your blessings!Think about this: picture yourself in 15 years or so, married, with kids. You decided to remain a virgin, and married a gal who wasn't. I'm going to bet that you will start to fantasize about what you may have missed out on in your younger days, and whether your wife has been comparing you to her former lovers during your years together. I am not judging your present choice, but think about the above scenario. Consider all your present options; think about the ramifications of depriving your perfect girl of getting to know your intimate side, as you grow in love together.Best wishes!F
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A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): In actual fact, your dilemma should be a moral one, if she was forced, she should be a virgin in your eyes and should be treated as one. Because you are still a virgin it is your choice whether you want to wait for a virgin girl or not, well done for saving yourself, you will find whet you are looking for, but be warned the first time should be very relaxed and both parties shouls feel comfortable wit experimenting and speak their minds.As for your question about vagina size, it varies, like the penis, you get tight one's and looser one's, it also depends on your size!Sex is best with the right partner, be it virgin or non virgin!
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