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writes: Me and my fiancé (21, 22)have sex maybe once a week.. just me inside of her doesn't feel good enough for her and she doesn't like using her hand so we use a vibrator to help even though I can get her to orgasm with me inside of her and her using the vibrator also.. she says it only feels good for a second and that my tongue feels betterWhen I use my tongue.. its usually an hour session that leads to nothing, I don't hit the right spots.. even though I practically know the spots I need to hit.. and I try my best to make her feel good.. I also try using my fingers inside her while im licking.. she doenst like the vibrator inside of her so i dont use that.. ive tried everything but usually after an half hour or an hour, she gives up and gets frustrated.. I I do hear her moaning and enjoying it .. but then its like the feeling goes away for her.. Then i usually go masturbate and she usually goes to bedNow we are not having sex or doing anything.. I feel it is because now (after 3-4 disappointments.. she is expecting another one.. I don't know what to do anymore. Even if I light some candles.. to set the mood I still feel as though I cannot satisfy her right we both love each other and are going to get married and have kids.. but this is always troubling me.. I don't know what to do. She says i dont turn her on.. which may be true.. but she is working like 10 hours a day and very stressed out.. She even told me that when she touches herself it doesnt feel good..Any help would be greatly appreciated
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): If she can't make herself orgasm, she can't expect you to. Try this, be a little more dominant...pull her top down her shoulder, quickly and hard, don't rip anything, kiss her passionately on her shoulder and softer in her neck...act like you are one of those Novel characters, full of confidence and lust...push her down on the bed and here is a little secret tactic...Sit infront of her on your knees, while she is lying down in front of you on her back, position yourself between her legs, her legs bent at the knee. Enter her and gently and slowly go in and out. Put some baby oil on your thumb and gently massage in a circular motion just below the clitoris, you will need her guidance or just watch her response. As you move your thumb gently but firmly from left to right you will feel an elevation, it stretches from the clitoris over the pelvic bone, inside her, she will be able to tell you what feels good and if you should increase the pase.Good Luck
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