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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Turnabout is fair play, but she won't give me oral any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7135 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. 2 years ago she stopped giving me oral sex butI give it to her every time we make love. How can I get her give me it return ?...

After getting married I was hot for sex with my wife... until we actually did it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7131 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I am 26. and I have been married recently. The problem is that in the first night of my marriage, my wife told me that she has menses, that continued for 4 days. For those four days I was feeling very hot for sex. And my erection was also great. B...

Do men lose their sex drive? He's 34 and he's just 'not in the mood' any more...

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for a little over 2 years now and most things in the relationship are great.. actually they are more than great. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I ...

I worry that my penis might be tiny...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm worried about sex. I'm not thinking about having it now, but I'm worried about the future. First of all, and most important, I've been seeing questions about the foreskin. I'm 13 and my foreskin does not come back over my penis when I have an ...

Our sex life was rocky to begin with, but it's getting worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7137 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - Hi, My question is me and my fiancee' have had a rocky sex life from the beginning and it's getting worse. First it was masturbation to porn that hurt me. Now he said he stopped; I don't believe that. Now he either can't keep an erection or can't...

I'm uncomfortable with her sexually-active past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7118 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - My partner has had numerous sexual encounters with different men to the extent of reaching 20-30plus. I find her past hard to deal with, especially knowing some of the people and especially when meeting them whilst socialising. This usually en...

My favourite position is man-on-top, but it just doesn't get me off. What's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I love sex with my hubbie, but it is hard for me to cum when he is on top. Him on top is my favorite. Is there something wrong with me? I know there is nothing wrong with him. He is a big size. ...

He said not to tell anyone after we had sex, but I did and now he's saying I've ruined his life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7130 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I slept with a boy because I really liked him. Afterwards he told me not to tell anyone. I thought this was strange. I thought he was embarrassed of me. I told a few of my closest friends to see what they thought. He found out somehow - he told me ...

Even though I love my b/f, I'm just not sexually attracted to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7138 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid... What does one do when they really, really love someone but they are not in love with that person? I love my boyfriend to death, but he doesn't turn me on. I once heard that after your sex life is gone, your relationship is doomed...Is ...

Lately, my b/f says he's too tired for sex...and it's getting to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I'm 17 & my boyfriend is 23. We are both young yet we don't seem to be having much sex lately & it's starting to get to me. I want it but he is always tired & it's getting me down. He says it's not that he doesn't want me it's just he is tired. ...

What I thought was normal sex, he thinks is "boring". What he wants, I think is "unsanitary"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7134 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid; I am involved in a long term relationship, which I am hoping (fingers crossed) will eventually lead to marriage. I'm not unexperienced or new to sexual encounters. The problem I am having is that in all my past experiences being w...

What happens if you wee during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6394 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - What happenes if the women or man pees while having sex?...

He was too drunk to get it up, and now he seems to be avoiding all opportunities...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - hi, I'm 17 and I've been with my b/f for over 2 months. We've not had sex. One night he couldn't get it up because he was too drunk and since then it seems like he is avoiding having sex with me. We've had the opportunities and I try to initi...

I have a new woman in my life, but I'm terrified of criticism...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7141 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I live in the U.K. and was married for over 25 yrs to an Eastern European woman, then she had an affair. She blamed me for it and criticised me for being small (4 in) and circumcised, (boring) not like her lover. His size and foreskin made for ...

He loses his erection when he stops to put on a condom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7140 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I'm 22 yr old female and have been married for 2.5 months. My husband is 29 yrs old and we are very much in love with each other. The problem is that we are unable to have sex (intercourse) because he loses erection whenever he takes a pause to...

My boyfriend just isn't interested in sex, but he says he fancies me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7141 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend is never interested in sex. He says he still fancies me and wants to be with me. So what do you think could be the problem?...

I don't think I'm gay, but I did once have sex with another boy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I'm a young boy, under the age of 15 but I've had sex. The thing is it was with another boy. I haven't done for a good couple of years and I don't find boys attractive. I've had a few girlfriends as well but that doesn't stop me from being worried ...

If I don't given in to his request for sex every time, he goes sulky. Is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7143 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend gets the sulks every time I refuse sex & when I refuse to spend the night with him. It ain't that I don't want to spend the night with him, it's just that I can't because I'd have to lie to my mum about him staying, because she doesn't ...

I'm having trouble keeping my lover interested...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I'm a gay male, 38. I'm having trouble keeping my boyfriend, 32, sexually aroused. We have sex once or twice a week. What can I do to arouse him? anonymously, high and dry....

At what point am I a tart? Or a tease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - When to have sex ? How many dates should I have with a man before sleeping with him? I don't want him to think I am a tart but I don't want him to think I am teasing him and leading him on. I really fancy him and want to have sex with him but...

Married for a month and my wife has lost interest in sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7141 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - A few months before I got married (just four weeks ago) my wife had to stop taking the pill for health reasons. She seriously dislikes condoms and as a result has lost all motivation towards sex to the point that she's almost scared of it now. She's ...

Foreskins and oral sex... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7133 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I want to know when you give oral sex to a man what happens with the foreskin?? Do you do your stuff while the skin is down or do you pull it up? Does it hurt if you pull it up?...

My sexy mom...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7069 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....

I've never given a blowjob and I need some advice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I have a boyfriend who i have been with for four months now and he has asked me to give him a blow-job! He says that he loves me and I do love him but the problem is I have never given one before so I am worried that if I do it wrong he will lose ...

No sex since January. Does this mean I'm not attractive any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7146 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for two+ years and love him so much. He and I have a super relationship. He is 15 years older than me at 38. The problem is that he is really not that interested in sex. We haven't had sex since January and it is killing ...

My husband says he loves me and that he's not having an affair, but the sex is almost non-existant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7138 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I am married with my husband for ten years now and it's been a while that we don't have sex. I know he cares and he said that he loves me so much. but why can he not tell me what is wrong? We have some arguments about our sex life because sometime...

Interested in anal, but I can't seem to relax enough...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7124 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - Would like to try anal sex. I'm a 50 year old woman. Been told it best to have an enema first because it can help to relax the muscles. What is the best position for me to try? Only tried on all fours with no luck. The tip of the penis only went ...

Too lazy to move during sex. I wonder if I'll ever have an orgasm again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - Ever since I have been sexually active, there has only ever been one guy that has brought me to climax. Before him I never knew the meaning of the word. Now we have broken up and have a new boyfriend, he suggests I should go to the gym to get fit ...

I've lost confidence in the bedroom, and I want to get it back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7126 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - I have lost all my confidence in the bedroom. I'm currently seeing a guy and we've had good sex and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed it. The problem is he came to stay with me this weekend and I totally clammed up. I found it almost impossible to relax ...

If I won't sleep with him, he keeps looking until he finds someone who will!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - I'm 14 and an American who just moved to Maidstone and I need some advice. This boy of 16 likes me; thing is, every time we go out he wants to sleep with me and if I don't he stays with me til he does find someone who will. Then once he sleeps w...

After my lusty fling with the guy from the gym, I don't have any chemistry with my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7148 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I am married with a child of 5. Me and my husband separated for at least 3 months. I ended breaking it off with my husband as there was no affection, love or even conversation. We were more like brother & sister. He spoke down to me, made me feel ...

My boyfriend never climaxes any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7147 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - After a tough year and a half my boyfriend never climaxes with me anymore. How can we overcome this?...

Will masturbation affect my health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7133 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I am a 15 yr old girl and I masturbate alot. Is this dangerous or will it affect my health?...

Our sex life has dwindled and it feels like he's just doing it for me. He just doesn't seem interested any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7149 days ago

17 April 2005 (F) - Hi there, I am with a man that I love very much and he loves me. I think its started to go wrong all because of the sex. We used to have a wild sex life, sex all the time, watch porn together and pretty much nothing was ruled out, to experiment ...

We agreed she can see her fling once a week & our sex life has improved. Just wondering if it's normal...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7144 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - My wife is 53 and I am 55 and children have left. My wife's behavior has changed since she went on a residential weekend where she had a fling with a much younger man. After a lot of discussion I have told her that it is OK and she reassured me it ...

The ex is cheating on his g/f with me. She knows, but she still keeps taking him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7135 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - Can't stop having wild sex with ex. We split 3 years ago due to his cheating. He also has a drink problem but always meet up. He comes back every couple of weeks and have amazing sex. He now lives with someone, has done since last year but still ...

I want it bigger... and I want to be better! Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7146 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - 1) i want to make my cock more bigger then it is (:P) 2) what are the useful tips to make women happy at the time of sex? 3)how can 1 increase time while having sex with some 1 ?...

She's hot for it right now, but I want to wait until we get married...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - You see me and my gal have been together for 2 years and we love each other to death, but we haven't had sex all this time. I feel we should wait til marriage but whenever we kiss and touch she tells me she wants us to do it. Am I doing the right th...

My g/f says sex is uncomfortable, but 'no sex' is uncomfortable for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7148 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - My girlfriend has stopped having sex with me. She says it's because she doesn't feel nice. She has put on a little weight and now she feels ugly but it's really getting to me and I want to have sex. What should I do?...

My friend lets everyone use her because she feels unworthy. What can I do...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7132 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - My question is in two parts. Im male, I have a female friend. 1) My friend has a sexual problem, she really loves sex and wants to please men because she thinks it will make them love her but everyone just uses her and she cant stop...What can...

My husband is so close to his friend that it makes me jealous. I wonder if something is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7149 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been married for a little over two months - have been together two years -have a nine month old son together - and I have a three year old from a previous marriage. I never would have thought of this problem arising but it has ...

When he goes down on me, it's just too intense and I have to ask him to stop...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7138 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now we are really happy together and our sex life is good. But when he stimulates my clitoris either with his tongue or finger I get to the point where I can't take the feeling and have to tell him...

I need guidance and advice on great sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7151 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - I have a boyfriend that is really into sex. I am into it very much too. But I am very afraid to show emotion during it. I do not know what to do with my hands and I really do not know what to do, period. I need sex advice now. Tell me what to do to...

Zero sex drive. What's wrong with me and how can I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7150 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years and my sex drive has totally gone. I get aroused and want to sometimes but can't seem to have his fingers down there, whereas if its his penis, I'm fine. The last time we had sex was a mo...

I'm married, but starting to find other guys attractive... could I be bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7151 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - hello I was wondering if I was bisexual as another male took pics of me naked and played with my cock. I also have and given wanks and blowjobs and am starting to think of males again. I am married. anon ...

My guy named his fantasy porn photo after my sister! Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7151 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - My question is about sexual fantasies... My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years and a long time ago, I found some porn on his computer. I wasn't surprised at this, what I was surprised about was the fact that he had renamed the porn...

I think my man has a foot fetish and I think it's kind of weird...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - My man gets on his internet and looks up things about feet! Like fetish stuff. I've always found this a bit wierd and I'm not sure why he likes feet, so much he won't tell me. Does anyone know? How can I get him to let me in on it? What if I don'...

We've only been together for 6 months, but our sex life is getting routine already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7153 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I suffer from agoraphobia and live on the outskirts of a city. I find it very hard to go out and get quite depressed. I suffer from anxiety most days. Yet, I still am positive, try to do all I can and make the most of what I have got. I am worried ...

My boyfriend wants to come, but then he just goes "numb"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7126 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I can't seem to get my b/f off. I have tried everything from having him show me what he likes to having him do it himself for me to watch and learn. I don't know how to work it. He has told me that he is ready for it but then he has to do it himse...

I have a few questions about sex with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - Hi. I have a few questions. I've been with my guy for almost 5 years. We have been off and on, but he has been the only guy I've been having sex with. In the beginning, the sex was good. It was fun and we'd do a lot of positions. One of the tim...