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writes: Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now we are really happy together and our sex life is good. But when he stimulates my clitoris either with his tongue or finger I get to the point where I can't take the feeling and have to tell him to stop. Please could you give me some advice so I can carry on and climax? I do enjoy sex but feel like there is something missing as I have never climaxed before.
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reader, confusedlady +, writes (28 April 2005):
I think you need to ask your b/f to try a different technique. If he is maybe too rough or fast the sensation may be to intense for you. Ask him to maybe slow it down and go a bit gentler to begin with and then quicken the pace. Then it's just a matter of letting yourself go and trying your best to enjoy it. The main thing is to explain to your b/f what you like, and the best way to find out what you like is to find out for yourself - on your own first, if you know what i mean!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2005): It just means that you are very lucky to have that sexual experiace as you can always get stimulated, but if you don't like it it's hard, as there is nothing really to do apart from get used to it and start to really enjoy it. You will love it in the end and be a very very lucky girl, so just try to like it and then hopefully you wil get used to it and love it very much!
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