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Too lazy to move during sex. I wonder if I'll ever have an orgasm again...

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Question - (19 April 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

Ever since I have been sexually active, there has only ever been one guy that has brought me to climax. Before him I never knew the meaning of the word.

Now we have broken up and have a new boyfriend, he suggests I should go to the gym to get fit because I get lazy to move my body during love making.

When we go out dancing I really give it my all and he says I'm a good dancer, but why can't I move as well in bed as Ii do on the dance floor? And am I doomed? Will I ever have an orgasm again? Coz I really like this guy, and wouldn't want to lose him because of my perfomance in bed.

Could the fact that sex has very little importance to me and think that it is too much effort, have anything to do with my two problems?

Should i seek professional help before it gets too late?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007):

wow - you sound like my gf. she's never had an orgasm and i think it's becuz she's too lazy to concentrate enough. she also doesn't move during sex and generally loses interest. i've been with enough girls to know it's not me (and she agrees it's her issue)... so if you ever find an answer post it here!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005):

Hi hunny. You certainly don`t need comments like that as they will do nothing for your confidence. In order to act like a sex goddess, you need to see yourself as a sex goddess. You don`t need to swing from the chandelier to move during intercourse. t can be as easy as simply writhing and moving your hips as you ride him.

I`m a big girl but I still move my body seductively as I make love with my boyfriend and trust me he loves it.

I hope that this helps you .Take care and good luck.

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