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writes: After a tough year and a half my boyfriend never climaxes with me anymore. How can we overcome this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (19 April 2005):
There isn't much to go on in your letter, but I'm guessing that he can manage to Climax on his own ? If that is the case it at least rules out a medical problem. Might be worth getting him checked out to be sure. Also, perhaps he's paying to much attention to himself (masturbating heavily), this can take its toll on a man... If you have ruled these two out, then it could simply be a mental block. You need to try and found out why, have a nice chat, relax and tell each other how much you care about one another. It could just be a case of being patient, you say you have had a tough year, so maybe he's too anxious. These things take time, so be patient, and do other things until you are both back on a much more even keel.
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reader, fikitty +, writes (19 April 2005):
Ask him why first.
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reader, kimberenee82 +, writes (18 April 2005):
Find out how he feels when you have sex. If he feels depressed or something you might want to try and spice it up by trying new things together whether it be romantic candle lit or a little freaky with hand cuff. Just make sure you feel comfortable with it also otherwise it could just reverse it. good luck
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