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My boyfriend just isn't interested in sex, but he says he fancies me...

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Question - (25 April 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2005)
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My boyfriend is never interested in sex. He says he still fancies me and wants to be with me. So what do you think could be the problem?

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (25 April 2005):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntThere could be a variety of reasons why he isn't interested in sex. It could be stress at work. He could have a very low sex drive. It could be performance worries. It could be a whole range of psychological reasons; things that are on his mind.

The question is; does he know why? Has he had this problem before? Has he ever had any help with it?

Have you asked him any of this? It might be an idea to do so and try to get the core of the problem. Him saying that he fancies you is reassuring but you still don't know why he isn't interested in sex.

Sit him down and say to him that it is important to you, that you want to be able to show him that you love him in this way.

Try to get him to open out and say what he thinks could be the reasons for his lack of interest in sex.

I hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2005):

He probably has a low sex drive. This is common in a lot of men, so there is no problem. Just dont rush him and enjoy the sex you do have.

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