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writes: I have a boyfriend who i have been with for four months now and he has asked me to give him a blow-job! He says that he loves me and I do love him but the problem is I have never given one before so I am worried that if I do it wrong he will lose some interest in me or think I am stupid! Please help me or give me some tips on how to give him one!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): Take hold of the whole thing except the head, that bit just suck on and pull in and out of your mouth. Basically, concentrate on the head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2005): ok everyone...lets stop arsing around and tell her proper! OK you dont need to worry too much as there is no such thing as a bad blowjob! hooray! Generally guys like it quite 'wet' so be prepared to use lots of saliva....if the idea grosses you out have a little bit of wine in your mouth at the same time..so its nice for you both then! You should put one hand at the bottom of his dick and hold it not too firmly (your not trying to strangle anything) this is so it stimulates him more but also so you can control how far you want it in yuor mouth! Then basically give him a hand job but put your mouth on top. If you get bored as hell or get lockjaw don't be afraid to stop and vary it with licking his dick or his balls and then go back to sucking. The ONLY thing to think about is if you are going to spit or swallow.....i think either is acceptable...it's nothing to stress about...a little bleechy thats all anyway if you want to go for it...just make sure his dick is quite far in your mouth so you dont have too long a taste sensation....if not ask him to warn you so he can put it somewhere else asthetically pleasing like your breasts....i dont thing a spitter is so cool...if you have to at least get a tissue! Good luck!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): Just think if he tells you that he loves you then he will be happy with any pleasure you give him! just relax and try not to think if he's enjoying it or not, you'll be fine! remember everyone has to do something for the first time! good luck! :oD
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): Well just think, he knows it will be your 1st time, so he knows you're not going to be a pro at it. Let him tell you want he likes or wants, and go from there. Most guys are very willing to tell you how they want it. Guys like all different ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005): If you wanna watch a movie about how to give a blow job, rent "boat trip" with Cuba Gooding Jr. I have been giving blow jobs for 6 years and I even learned lots from the one scene.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2005): Giving a blowjob to your man starts at listening to what he wants and being comfortable with performing the act. You either like doing it or you don't. The best advise is pretend you are licking an icecream cone and be careful with your teeth. In the end, there is no such thing as a bad blowjob. It just takes practice, and make sure he returns the favor! "D"
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2005): If he says that he loves you, then you have nothing to worry about! just start out slow and do a lot of sucking and let the tip of your teeth scratch him, but don't bite down. Be rough with it but not too rough that you are scared you might hurt him. Trust me, having sex is a lot rougher than than a blow job on his member. just relax nd do what you think is comfortable
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