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writes: I'm 14 and an American who just moved to Maidstone and I need some advice.This boy of 16 likes me; thing is, every time we go out he wants to sleep with me and if I don't he stays with me til he does find someone who will.Then once he sleeps with them he leaves them and comes back to me.He sleeps around a lot but I can't control my feelings til people tell me what to do. We recently got off with each other. He swore it would be different. Yet he has slept with 2 of my mates since.I have a really nice guy who is into me but I won't go out with him as I would feel guilty, though he is really nice. I would feel awkward. Can someone please help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, splodge +, writes (18 April 2005):
Do you really want to be with a guy that does this? He obvioulsy doesnt value you very much as the lovely individual you are, or he wouldnt behave in the immature way he is. Im sure you can wait a while and find a more mature guy who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. You also have to remember that if he is having sex with all these other girls, he could be picking up all sorts of horrible infections that he could one day pass on to you! Have more self worth and find a good guy.
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reader, manda +, writes (18 April 2005):
What would you advise a friend of yours in the same situation to do? Think of it like this cos it helps you to detach the yourself from the problem and think logically. The situation you are in at the moment will continue on a simular thread for as long as you let it. Let him down bit by bit, in this day and age you can't take the risk of sleeping with someone who puts it about like this fellow. And as for feeling guilty, it will fade of not like an STD. And these friends of yours that have slept with him i think you need to concider weather you think they are worthy of you too. self respect is number one importance mate. hope you feel good again soon x
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