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writes: I have a boyfriend that is really into sex. I am into it very much too. But I am very afraid to show emotion during it. I do not know what to do with my hands and I really do not know what to do, period. I need sex advice now. Tell me what to do to make him very happy. Anything fun, kinky, and great is good for me. Please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005): You might want to consider renting an x-rated film to get some useful tips. Considering that's where most men get their idea of good sex from, it might be helpful. I realize sometimes the actresses go a bit over the top, but you can learn a lot from watching their moves.
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reader, tasha.c +, writes (15 April 2005):
Hi babe, I know exactly how you feel. I had the same prob up until about 1 year. I had a reality check and at the end of the day it doesn't matter how you are in bed as long as you are both enjoying it and if your boyfriend is into it so much, then I'm sure you're doing it just fine.Why don't you try turning the lights off, lighting some candles and dressing up in your sexest underwear and wait for him to come in? The look on his face will let you know that it's all good. And as for what to do with your hand, just be gentle and try putting some lubrication on your hand when you're doing it. Just stroke him up and down gently; it will drive him wild. Keep a firm, but not tight grip and stroke his balls. He will love it.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (15 April 2005):
 I think it may be too easy to say just go with the flow and be yourself as I imagine you have already tried this. I believe the best thing to do to start with is to ask him what he would like you to do. Contrary to popular belief, not all men like exactly the same things. In general, they do enjoy receiving oral sex but he may liked to be touched in a certain way, kissed in certain areas. The best way of finding out is to either ask him or to touch him and ask him if that feels okay. Also ask him if he would like to see you dressed up, would he like to see you touching yourself to arouse him, does he prefer some positions more than others?Try the slow sensual approach by kissing and touching him all over, rubbing your body up close to his, eventually stroking his penis, massaging his testicles. You will certainly be using your hands then!Give him a tantalising blow-job; only taking him whole in your mouth once you have licked around the top of his penis and up and down the length of it. Use your other hand to caress it while you mouth does the teasing and your tongue continues to pleasure him.You could suggest ways of intoducing more fun such as tying him up or him doing the same to you. Try doing it different ways such as standing up or in the bath.You will learn to be able to express emotion once you are more relaxed and as you will know he is aroused, it will be easier for you to let yourself go.I hope this helps.
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