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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

From the sounds of things is this still worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - A couple of months ago, I met a guy via online dating and I have not felt this excited about someone in such a long time. I have been single for 3 years. In the early stages, we mentioned about the idea of meeting up and seeing what happens. He ...

Is he interested? I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I am ordinarily a well put together 36 year old woman but find myself in Unchartered territory. I have recently been having a flirtation with a guy (which is an alien concept as I have been on my own for a long time) in person he is ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear fr...

Desperate for sexual contact after long time single - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Keeping it brief. Was in a 10-yr LTR that was sexless for last 5 years. My girlfriend always had a low sex drive, I loved her, decided I could cope but it eventually totalled petered out. After 5 years I couldn't cope without intimacy any more, ...

When to reveal a disability during online dating?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

Interracial dating question: is he the one with issues or is it me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

24 April 2013 (?) - I was on an interacial dating site as a black female born and bred in england and was approached by a white man stating he was interested, i asked the question, why interacial dating?, he replied "during the last 50 years english girls have lost ...

Would it be a good idea to message this girl even if I messed things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - This may not be such a big deal and people will most likely say I should just forget it and keep searching but I hate when I mess up and I really feel as if I missed a possible opportunity for something that could have been great. I've been doin...

On line friend, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Theres this guy and he used to annoys and teases me a lot. We started to chat on facebook and chat for at least 4 to 6 hours a day(not everyday but once in a while). Since we are going to different schools next year he just said that hes going to ...

I created a fake ad on Craigslist to see if my boyfriend would make contact. He did, now what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - A little background info first: my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. He always told me I was his first love and I'm the first girl he's even considered marriage with and so on. His family has even told me I'm the first ...

I love him still and want him in my life but have come to the realization that for now I have to let him hit rock bottom and pray that he finds his way back to my heart..hopefully soon enough.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - The man I love with who Ive been off and on (not because we argued all the time, just because he has not been ready for a relationship because of many aspects of his life). 1- When I say he's not ready for a relationship is because he isn't...

Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I confront him? He's my LDR and claims he forgets to text as he's "busy". But never explains what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid May be i'm blowing this out of proportion? I wanted to write here and check before i fight with my bf (of 3 yrs). My bf works in a different city, few days he stays with his friends and few days he stays here with me. I ask him t...

I can't handle the competition he puts me through! How can I make him let me be the only one he dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I lost my husband of 35 years in 2009. I stayed home without dating for 2 years and when ready, I decided to go online. I met a man 6 years older than I and was very impressed. In fact, I fell in love with him, but was not quite ready to jump ...

Should I ask the guy for a second date or assume he's not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Hi I had a date with a guy on Friday night. It went well, we had a good talk, laugh etc and have things in common. I find him attractive, but don't know if he feels the same way. I don't know if the chemistry was there. After a few drinks in a ...

I want to invite my online date to my birthday party, but I'm afraid my parent's won't approve

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Need help!! I met a guy online.. We are around the same age, we've Been talking for a few weeks( I know he's a real person and who he says he is etc) anyway, I'm having a bday party and he's invited, but I don't know what I should tell my parents, ...

No reply from the one I love. what does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - I met a American guy online three weeks ago. He is in his late 40s. I am falling in love with him .... We talked online and it seems go well. He needs to work on shift schedule, and i work only during day time. So, we do not talk every day because...

My boyfriend cheated with a girl who is now making my life miserable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I feel so devastated and I don't even know how I got into this situation. I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I really loved. I found out he basically cheated on me with a girl who has had an on again off again re...

Why doesn't he want a relationship with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy who I met on a dating site for two months. He actually stated that he wants a relationship and so do I. Our dates were really fun at first, we seemed pretty compatible. I've even met his friends and they all liked me but he was ...

Can anyone help with suggestions on how I talk to him about it or just manage to move on and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Will try cut a long story short...I have known a guy all my life, we grew up together and drifted apart as we grew older. I still saw him on occasions and it just so happened that we both had feelings for one another. Things never got too serious ...

Our text life is not going well, nor is our LDR, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost seven months now, and it seems like at the beginning of our relationship everything was good and we always talked and had a good time. Keeping in mind that this is a long distance relationship. Now she ...

I haven't heard from her, can I send a message without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

9 April 2013 (M) - i've been speaking to this girl on my tumblr and all of a sudden she added 2 x's (xx) at the end of her messages so i did the same then she added a third (xxx) and we've both stuck with 3 we spoke everyday mostly at least 1 message a day as she ...

We didn't have much of a connection, should I just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - Hi so I met this guy online a couple of years ago,we spoke for like a year before we met,he came to see me..and I realised we had nothing to talk abt since we have no common friends or similar interest! Anywys we stayed it touch after the meet but...

He disappeared without an explanation. Couldn't he at least explained first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - Iam a 33 year old woman and I have been divorced for about 3 years. About 7 months ago, I met a man online from USA through a dating website. He immediately asked for my number and we got chatting and talking regularly. I am a professional and...

Online guy said he loved me and then he was just gone. I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - i'm 27 and i met a guy with the same age in a dating site. we had been talking in skype/ym or fb for almost every night for a month only, seeing each other's pictures and seeing each other in camera. well, he was always saying that he loved me so ...

I pushed my ex away with constant messaging. Now he's done a disappearing act. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - My bf has done the disappearing act on me. He dumped me about two weeks ago but then wanted me back. He dumped me cause he's unsure what he wants. However he didn't contact me for for a few days and I asked " are we still together?".. He replie...

I made an online profile hoping the guy would figure out it was me. I texted him and now he hasn't texted me back. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

5 April 2013 (F) - I met a guy on line. Things were going better then expected. I found out he was still actively on more then one dating website. Even tho I know we owe eacn other nothing yet and he has full right to be dating around. I went on the website and made a ...

Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have be...

I am his Gf. She was his crush. Now he's talking to her online. Am I missing something here? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now,we go to the same university! But before he met me he was crazily in love with a crush on a fellow student.. They were in the same class and he was head over heels in love with her. Yet when h...

I don’t want to rule him out but then also don’t want to be walked all over

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site and he seemed really genuine and sweet. After a week of talking, despite not being 100% on his picture, I agreed to meet with him for a drink because I thought we had a lot in common. We met and had a really lovely ...

Truly, was I just his back up girl ? Or was it all my fault ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Hi ! I met a guy online and dated him for a month. I thought he was serious because at our first date he asked me if I was talking to other people on the website. When I said no he said him either. Also he was asking me a lot about my future ...

A dating question: Can it work when one person has a career and the other what they consider 'an everyday job'?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Hi I've been single for 16 months now. I've had a few dates, a few casual flings and I'm ready for a serious relationship. I met a guy online a few weeks ago. He's 8 years younger than me, intelligent, funny and we get on really well. In fact I g...

Do I hope for too much too soon? Sick of being "the other one". I know it may sound dramatic, but I need any form of guidance or help. Please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - I have a huge dilemma, I thought I could get text one of my friends for help. Alas, I feel so helpless and I didn't know where to turn from here. So I met this guy on a phone app not a hooking up app, he hit me up first. We quickly started ...

The elephant in the room: is he my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

1 April 2013 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website and we have been dating for 2 months. We speak to each other everyday and say goodnight before bed. We sleep at each other's houses and have sex twice a week. He seems very loyal and committed in his actions and has ...

We need a good cover story for how we met in a coffee shop, help, please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

1 April 2013 (M) - Hi, Basically me and my gf have been going out now for 3 years and we are going to get married. But first we have to tell our parents. Our parents have indian cultures. Hence we haven't told them before, because gf and bf is frowned upon. However ...

So I met a girl online, was I pretty stupid putting the "friend" thing on a dating site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

1 April 2013 (M) - I am a single dad with two boys, I decided to have a try at one of the main dating sites, and a girl started messaging me, said she liked what I said on the profile. However, one of the things I wrote on there was that if I couldnt find a lover I ...

Who makes the first move on a third date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

1 April 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone! I am single and have joined an internet dating site. I met this fellow, let's call him Mr.M. Originally we organised a date for the week after we met, but it just so happened that our work gave us the same day off before th...

She seems to have lost interest in me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

1 April 2013 (M) - I met the most wonderful girl on a dating site - intelligent, articulate, humble, kind - and we've been communicating online for more than two months now. We bonded together over a series of uncanny coincidences and shared interests. We al...