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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Even though her ex has moved out I am still her secret lover and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I've been married twice and have four children two from each marrage, I see my children every weekend and share holidays. Seven months ago through the internet I met up with a girl that I had not seen in 23 years. She was in a form of relationship ...

Could he be scared to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met someone online a few years back, he was all fired up about meeting in person. It took a few months for us to meet. We clicked immediately, he called me, we spoke on the phone all the time. I called his house and his children would pick up ...

Closet bi-sexuals having trouble communicating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - i met this girl from italy on internet about a month ago.... i sort of like her (it's mutual). we only chat online and text each other like few times a week. but she is not good at english, only in italian. many times when i chat with her i feel we ...

Text message from his so called "boyfriend" claiming he is gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I started using a dating website a few months back and after a while met this guy who was very friendly, attractive and got on with me so well. He was willing to wait to go on a date with me because I'm in my 3rd year of university and need to ...

I want to go slow but I don't want to scare him off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I contacted a guy on a popular website for friends on the weekend, and he immediately added me. I never do these kind of things but I have been single for too long. I could see he changed his mood status from stressed to adventurous, rig...

I sent him nice photos of me but I worry he will not like me in reality!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - ok so where do i start?? i am 20, nearly 21. When i was 13 i met this boy who was 14 on a chatroom. we used to text all the time and really really liked eachother. for just over 7 years we have kept i contact on and off. i hadnt heard from him for ...

Was I too nice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We ...

He begged me to be his girlfriend but now I'm not what he is looking for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hey you guys, Just a week ago, I went on a date with a guy that I had met on a dating website. He convinced me to meet him a Saturday evening (9:30 pm- which is quite late for me normally). Anyway, I made it safely and we met. We hung out with hi...

Is he nervous/unsure or are we just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I just started talking to a guy online that I met through a dating website. We talk almost every day (he contacts me through IM or email), but he talks to me like I'm just a friend. I have flirted with him a bit, but he doesn't respond at all to my ...

Every time I meet with him it's magic... but then he blocks me and deletes my emails... why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - We met last week after not seeing each other for 1 1/2 years. We met on line 3 years ago. It took us 3 months to meet for the first time. After that we chatted on line all the time, not getting together again for another 6 months and then 10 ...

I've been out of the game for a while. Is she into me? What to do next

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Alright. Just a little background. I go to this gym frequently for the past year and a half. There is this pretty girl that works there, and I have had a huge crush on her since I saw her awhile back. Well, I finally decided to at least send her a...

I'm so attached to him... should I break it off or tough it out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Just to make things clear, I'm 15 and he's 20 (Yes, I know this is illegal). We met online and eventually met up in person. I currently live on the east coast, and he lives on the west ...

Adult dating site dilemma!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hello People, Here is the story:- About 3 years ago I joined an adult dating site. Mainly as a way to see if I could have sex, just recreationally with no strings. Like minded people looking for the same thing. Anyway after much searching of...

He said he doesn't come to see me often because of the distance... could this be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - We live more than an hour away. We met online 3 years ago. It took a while for us to meet in person. We hit it off immediately. The first kiss was amazing. We parted our ways and spoke online more always intending to have another date. Six ...

Relationship truth opens up world of upset.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont ...

Met a guy online, he said he was 21 but he's really 17!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hi im 19 and from the UK, and i met this guy from Canada on a game. to play the game you have to be 18 and he said he was 21. we've spent every night tongether for the past 4 month talking for a minimum of 5 hours per night and over this time ...

Is it wrong or what? I'm 20 and she's 14 but it's online only.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Ok, long story short. I'm 20 and met a girl online 3 months ago. She told me she was 16 and we got along great! We laughed with each other, flirted, you know, things like that. Eventually I developed feelings for her. I couldn't help it because she ...

Wishful thinking or the Real thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Is it possible to feel a connection to someone you have never met but have conversed with via e-mail, IM and phone for the past 6 months? Has anyone had this happen before? Also, what are the chances upon an initial meeting that there will be no ...

Did I do something wrong by sending him this email?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - There´s a guy I´ve been having an email friendship for a long time. We are long distance and he is in the military. We are friends and like to exchange jokes, thoughts, and check on each other pretty often. I send him an email b/c I regularly visi...

I have been out of the dating scene for so long I have no idea if he even likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hello I have been out of the dating scene for a while now, mainly due to work and education commitments, so I recently signed up to a dating site. Now, I never thought I would ever do this sort of thing, so for me, it is quite a scary step. I am...

What kind of sign is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - hey i would like some advice! i saw this girl on myspace and she had the same hobbies i had so i decided to send her a friend request! so we emailed back and forth for a couple of days and it seemed good. after a few emails i sent her one asking if ...

Why did my guy I met on online dating site drastically lower the communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy from an online dating site. We talked for one month through email and kind of went on dates for a month. They went really well and things seemed promising until I met his best friend and sister and I didn't get along with the best ...

Should I go and visit my online b/f in the USA?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - i meet my online boyfriend 2 years and half ago. untill now we are still regularly communicating. chatting, texting but he doesnt call me cos he always worry about his phone bill. i insist him to come and visit so we could meet but he always want...

Am I over thinking the age difference? I'm 41 she is 27

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I recently met a beautiful and wonderful woman who is 27. I am 41 and we met online have gone out the past few weeks. To give you an idea what this is about, I’ll give you the details: As I stated, I am 41. However, if you saw me your jaw would d...

Why is she asking if I'm jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - okay here is the thing we are normal friends we meet first then she went to russia for some resons am in italy , we kept in touch by emails for almost a year now i really like her alot but i dont know her feelings towards me but her last e mail she ...

Is he testing the waters? Being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I wonder if you can help me figure this guy out please? I had a one night stand at Christmas time with this guy who is a friend of a friend. I knew this guy vaguely before but only as an acquaintance I would see with my friend once a year over the...

So close yet so far away! Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have this friend with whom i chat with on facebook since he is abroad.the problem is i really used to like him before he moved but i didnt tell him because i never knew he would go so far away.i really like him.am not sure if i should tell him ...

Should I believe him? He said he didn't post profile and messages on online dating sites.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hey there i need advice as im soo confused me n my bf hav bin 2gtha a yr, i had my doubts about him cheating as hes told me a few lies in the past, so i decided to do some hunting. i went on to google n typed in the user name he uses the most, t...

First time help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and ...

I love my ex but would like to date this other guy too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I'm an 18 year old female and I have never been so confused in my life. A few months ago, I dated a guy online, a friend of a friend that goes to school here. The problem was that it was a long distance relationship. He broke up with me about a ...

10 years of a loveless marriage, but met an interesting and loving guy online. Advice please.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Guys i am in a desperate need for some help. About myself in general....I am a 30 year old asian married woman with a child. I have been married for good 10 yrs now....i was married early (arranged marriage due to our culture). My husband is a...

My husband answered an online question by a girl. Should I approach him on it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I've been having trouble with my trust issues with my husband and now I found that he answered a question that was asked online by a girl is this really something to be mad over and should I approach him about it? I'm really upset about this!...

What exactly does he want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hey i met this guy through a fiend on facebook..its been a year almost..this friend introduced him to me as in my email id first we chatted and then in few weeks he took my number..since then until now he calls me constantly and is been in touch,he ...

Ok for me to make the first move? Or wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I've started messaging a guy online that I used to work with but he moved to a different branch and he's really nice. is it ok for me to make the first move or should I wait for him? He's said its nice to be talking again...is this a good sign?...

Is he making me depressed too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I asked this question before but I think I need to go into more detail. I met this guy online about a year ago and we have talked every day since then, I really like him a lot but he lives in a diffrent state. We have never met in person and I'm ...

I like this guy, but he just wants to be friends and mess around only :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - here goes, i met some guy off a site a few months ago and we've been talking for like 5 to 6 months now and we just met recently and he was affectionate towards me and we clicked like crazy and even showed me where he works and treated me to a nice ...

Should I do it... or wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy on the internet a few months back. We emailed back and forth for a few weeks then finally exchanged numbers. Let me just point out that he is quite possibly everything I have ever wanted in a man, yet never really believed I would ...

He says he wants to settle down and marry..but I'm not sure about all of this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - im really unsure bout something life-changing... A guy i knwo lives in Act, australia and i live in Sydney. we met on the internet bout 7 months ago and still kinda talk whenever he is on. he has always liked me from the start n i just wanted to b...

I just don't want this to be a FWB kind of thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

I look better in pictures! What if he doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - met someone online. weve talked way too much and i like the sound of him, but im worried about meeting in real life. what if i dont like him. and more importantly, what if he doesnt like me? i look much better in pictures lol. what should i do?...

I'm going to meet my internet guy over the weekend. Is it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - i have successfully in getting a partner, thanx dear cupid so much for helping me achieve that,but i still have a big problems as you can see in my country gay people does not allowed and base on that they always hide their sexuality from other ...

I sent a fake picture to my boyfriend and now he has cancelled his flights to come and see me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - my boy friend has cancelled his flight today!!! simply because i told him that the picture i sent to him was not of me but belong to someone else,since he wants to meet in person by the weekend, and i have to tell him the truth. he was upset with...

I want to start a long distance relationship with an agony aunt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - I think i have fallen in love with someone who i met on this site. How do i ask her out? How do i maintain a long distance relationship?...

Are we just friends? Why do we act the way we do then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We chatted and finally met in person. Since then we email each other everyday, the whole day, text everyday when one or the other is out of the country, when he comes into town (he lives faraway) we always ...

The picture I sent wasn't of me, and now he wants to meet in person!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - ok i have a big problem now and i don't know what to do so i'm confused i have been dating someone for two weeks now and he is so serious with me but the problem is that i lied to him about my picture, i sent to him another persons picture without ...

Have I made the right decision by leaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - hi, im a 21year old girl, and im very confused with my life and i need some advise from people. my past is very hard, i had a baby 2 years ago with the guy i loved and shortly after my baby was born she passed away due to an illness. since then me ...

My boyfriend has a ton of online interactions. Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year. all through the year i have been findin out stuff he has been doing behind my back. at the beginning i found texts he sent to his ex saying he still loves her and she told me they met and stuff...then ...

We chat online all the time but why doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Please help. I became friends with this guy in facebook, we chatted online every day, we are not completely strangers, more or less have the same circle of friends. We went out once, we had a great time and kissed. For the next three weeks, we ...

Brilliant first date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have been chatting to this girl on the internet, she is 25, and i am 34. We have been sending emails back and forth to each other, then we sent pictures of ourselves, then after about 4 weeks we started chatting on the phone. We got al...

I am worried that when I actually meet up with my chat friend, he wont like me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy on msn and hes done some bad things to me but ive done some bad things to him as well. i really really really like him [kinda sorta love] he loves me too, but we have never met. i cant imagine life without him to be very honest, but i ...