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writes:I've started messaging a guy online that I used to work with but he moved to a different branch and he's really nice. is it ok for me to make the first move or should I wait for him? He's said its nice to be talking again...is this a good sign? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): You made the first move messaging him so now it is his turn. What you could do is drop some hints to get him to ask you out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Don't wait for him girl,tell him how you feel.It's not gonna be easy,waiting 4 him won't help.May be he will never say a word.Some guys they think you cheep if you doing something like this but it will help you.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 April 2009):
 yeah it's a good sign he's clearly missed talking to you
but i'd wait a bit keep talking to him and see if any more signs appear.
i mean you never know he may make the first move.
but i'd wait a while before thinking of making moves atm.
don't make a move unless your 100% sure about this.
just keep chatting to him and drop hints that you like him and stuff and you never know he may pick up the hints and tell you he likes you or if you feel you are sure he likes you then you tell him and see what happens the worst thing he can say is he doesn't like you in that way but you guys can still be friends.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 April 2009):
Flirt like crazy with him one night and then just throw in "so are you ever going to invite me out for coffee? Or shall I die of a broken heart?!"
It's over dramatic enough that you can pretend you are only messing and therefore not desperate, and also, coffee dates can be a catch up between mates / a getting to know you shall we be boyfriend and girlfriend type date.
So you appear cool and casual and he can't read too much into it, yet it does move things forward and let him know you want him to ask you out.
Good Luck!! xx
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