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Should I believe him? He said he didn't post profile and messages on online dating sites.

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Question - (17 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hey there

i need advice as im soo confused

me n my bf hav bin 2gtha a yr, i had my doubts about him cheating as hes told me a few lies in the past, so i decided to do some hunting. i went on to google n typed in the user name he uses the most, to my surprise it came up with a casual sex site called be naughty,

he had a page n it said he was looking for casual sex, discreet relationships and said he can travel and accommodate. it had his old home town on it though so i 4got about it, but curiosity got the better of me so i thought id sign up n look at his profile again, to my surprise more came up,

it said he was last active in march, and it had sexual activities on it, from like the most to dislike, it said he likes group sex, bondage etc. i questioned him about it n he denyed it saying some1 else must of put him on there, i tried to get over it but when we was having sex, he said to me "i want you so bad" which was his chat up line on this site, i felt sick!

the next day i said to him can i hav his email password, he asked why, so i said to activate a profile on there you need to click on a link they send you in email. so if i send the user name n password to his email via forgot my password, if it wasn't him it wouldn't be in his in box rite? he eventually gave me his password, and guess what there was the email, among other emails from other sex sites and a email in his sent box with a pick of him half naked to a gal..

we argued and he said he kept his email password on a note on his comp and said he didnt do it! he still denys this and its bin a week.the other sex site he said he was taken but looking for no-strings sex with a woman or lesbian couple and said he lost his virginity at 13 in a wood!

it also says hes looking for someone as horny as him for no strings fun! he denies everything and he said hes phoned the police and they are dealing with it, and i can go and check if i want. hes shut all the sites down and deactivated his email saying he only needs me, but im still in 2minds what to believ, help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009):

Aren't you the least bit insulted that he would pass it off like that as if you were stupid? This makes me mad for you! What a jack@ss. Run far and run fast. You know in your heart what to do. Hold your head up and get out of there quick!

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (17 April 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntYou need to get out of this relationship, its unhealthy before its even really started - you have had little or no reassurance from this man, its more than sinister, its down right disgusting.

If you cant trust him, you have to get out before it gets worse. A relationship wont last without trust.

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