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writes:We live more than an hour away. We met online 3 years ago. It took a while for us to meet in person. We hit it off immediately. The first kiss was amazing. We parted our ways and spoke online more always intending to have another date. Six months later we met again at my house. Chemistry was amazing, we had sex. Didn't meet again until almost a year later. After each time we met in person, the online relationship dwindled. He even blocked me for a while. But always reappeared months later. I on the other hand could never forget him. I feel something real with him. We just met again last week after almost a year and a half. Again the chemistry was better than ever and kissing was even better. He said the reason why he doesn't come see me is because of distance and time. And he feels badly that he can't stay long and has to leave me. Could this be true? By the way we're both 49, not kids by any means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): You don't know whether you are coming or going with this guy. He could be married or in a relationship. Suggest that you talk on the phone between meetings and/or that you go over to his place. See how he reacts.
It's easy to shy away from asking him what's what for fear of the whole thing ending, but what, really, have you got to lose? You need to know whether he is worth the investment of your time, so I suggest you find that out now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): I suggest you give him time... Tell him you love him and that he is the one for you, maybe thats what he is waiting to hear? He distances himself from you because he is affraid of being heartbroken...I know because i have been in his shoes before... Its simple as that. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): Yes I do ask him to see me all the time, that is when I could make contact with him. You see, he was here last Sunday. We made contact to tell me he got home and that was it. He's disappeared again. He's not reading my mail, and I haven't seen him on line. When he does appear again, he always says he wants to see me, but it;s always the same story time and distance. I asked him if he had a wife and he said no. Actually in the beginning when we first met, we spoke on the phone and I called his house, but that was 3 years ago. He's got me crazy, cause when we are together it is just so wondeerful that I can't forget it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): why dont u see eachother more, do u ask him to meet up more or do you distance yourself from that situation? reply and i will reply to your reply :)
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reader, Mikados are lush!  +, writes (25 April 2009):
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The guy sounds a playa in the least and confused at the most! He probably does really like you, but is a bit of a relist and sees the distance as a problem. I dont know your living situation anymore than anyone else, but is it likely you two could get it together in the future living wise or is that a pretty long shot? That could put anyone off, especially a mature person, if its a pipe dream...
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