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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

What is wrong with me that I get involved with a married man? Why am I such a mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - What is wrong with me?? Please tell me what's wrong with me. I am ending an alcoholic marriage and am getting divorced. It has been very sad for many years and then i get involved with a married man for the last 18 months cos he was kind and car...

My husband is demanding a MMF and I want no part of it. Where is this coming from?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 37 years is now demanding an mmf. He also recently started working his finger in my anus during intercourse and insists on oral from me right after sex without wiping my juices off of his penis. I don't know where this is coming from. ...

Am I over sensitive about the mean things my husband says to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hello I am a middle aged woman and have been married for 12 years. My husband is in his early 60s. Our marriage has had its up and downs but we have made progress, we are both from different countries. We live in Canada. My family live in UK. ...

I walked in on my wife while she was performing oral sex. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - Me and my wife have been married for 12 years now.I never expected this from her.One day when I got home from work I walked in on her giving head to another man.He immediately ran out of the apartment,didn't even have time to get dressed.In our ...

My husband won't stop badgering me about having a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 18 years has been pressuring me to have a threesome with another man. I am not comfortable with this but he keeps insisting that he wants to share me with either a friend of his or one of my choice. I am 60 and not real comfortable ...

What can I do in dealing with my abusive mama's boy husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - I am not getting along with my husband very well at all, it is an abusive relationship for one thing and then I have a big problem in that it is like he is married to his mother. He is at her beck and call always sending her money because his pare...

Why is hubby hiding Viagra from me??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have been married for a very long time. About 10 years ago I discovered that my h was a porn/sex addict, he has never sought help, just thought that he could hide it better, now with the use of pocket porn, his mobile phone, he has a constant...

I feel like my wife is providing absolutely nothing to this marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

24 January 2016 (M) - I am not happy anymore IMy wife and i have been together for almost 6years, married for 1. Ever since we moved in together a few months before our wedding everything has gone downhill. I feel like a child and she is my mother most of the tim...

We've been married 7 months and I'm still a virgin because I'm terrified of getting pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm embarrassed writing on here but I don't have anyone I can confide in.... I hope I don't offend anyone with my post but I'm so sad and frustrated I don't know what to do.... I'm 34, and got married 7 months ago after being with my hu...

What action is needed by us, to resolve this family issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years living together for three years. Last year his mother died and his father had major heart surgery. We offered to have his father living with us temporary until he got better although he didn't tell his ...

Our marriage is falling apart. I ask myself, 'why am I with him?' What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - My marriage is falling apart and has been for some months. We aren't close and don't have a marriage in the true sense. We are more like friends now. Trust issues years ago regarding my husband haven't helped either. We've been married nearly 24 y...

How can my parents call truce when around me, then restart their fighting as soon as they depart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - So, I suffered a hairline ankle fracture. I called my momma. She makes the 4 hour drive down to my campus. She picks up my dad. They are divorced. I hear them arguing outside my door. But then, they stop instantly when I finally get to the door. My ...

My husband left me for another woman. When does the shock go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 7 years has left me for another woman and I'm very upset and not sure how I can handle this. My husband had been acting strange the last month or so and I've been worried, but when I ask him what's wrong he would always say he's ...

My husband is in prison but accuses me of cheating. He doesn't understand why I don't wish to be with him. He lied to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - If your husband had served a prison sentence for physically harming you but you forgave him and visited him and stood by him and he made you so many promises that these things would never happen again and he was going to give you a nice life and ...

Can I have independence and still keep my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Can someone tell me what's happening with me? I am in my mid 40 s, been married for 25 years, one grown up child that is independent and lives on her own. I have a hard time staying in this marriage the way my husband wants it to be. I have a...

At what point do I worry about what my husband is doing on facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Hello this is my first time posting in this website, I enjoy reading all the responses and questions which come up in the site. I guess now it's my turn. :) I will try to keep a long story short. I am 29 years old and my husband is 37. We have b...

How can I ever recover from this broken marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid Members, My husband has left me for someone else and I am really struggling. My question is will I ever get over this, honestly? Or will it affect me long term. This happened a few months ago. I have two young children and I am ...

How to handle this? What other important past information has my husband hidden from me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 years dated 4 years prior to that. Tonight, I just found out my husband has been married 3 times prior to our relationship. I knew of one marriage, but he has never openly disclosed these other 2 marriage...

Threesome that I initiated leads to my wife having a 2 year affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - My wife and I are in our late 20's, married 5 years..One night about two years ago after too many drinks at my single friends apartment, don't ask me why, i said lets try a threesome..probably the alchohol talking..it was totally my idea, and my ...

She refused me but tried fellatio with her fling. Do I have a right to be upset ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - Hello! I'm 38.Me and my wife (42) have been married for 9 years now. We were in an on/off relationship for quite awhile before we settled down-we were at odds all the time which led us to break up and then get back together.The longest we'...

Long term affair has me shocked

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

14 January 2016 (M) - I recently found out that the affair my wife had about 30 years ago had been going on for almost 3 years... I was shocked. Back then after her affair was discovered, and came to an end, I never thought that it had lasted THAT long. My question is ...

He's chatting on porn sites and I feel deceived

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - I am in a very happy marriage (or so I thought) until I discovered my husband was secretly contacting other women on porn sites. He told me it was pure fantasy and meant nothing and that he would stop as I had got so upset. He does not see this...

Married 11 years. How do I deal with this doubtful feeling I am sensing from his actions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - My husband and I took a pic of our internet password because we are always being asked what it is from our guest and we don't feel like going up stairs to the box each time. Anyway, I was on his phone looking for that pic and I found a pic of his p...

Are my dreams trustworthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

11 January 2016 (M) - I am a 39 yr old married man. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years with my wife for a work assignment where I met this single woman of my nationality who was working in the same organization as me and 10 years my junior. We became good friends, ...

Why couldn't he have come back in my life before I got married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I feel my life is a movie right now and I need help please. Years ago when I was 22 (I'm now 34) I met and fell in love with this guy, my age and we were together almost 2 years. I was convinced he was "the one." He then got an opportunity to s...

Why has he no backbone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

8 January 2016 (F) - I have left my husband as he has a bad shame problem. His uncle bully's him non stop and shames him about me. He has been jealous of our relationship since we got together and try's to split us up as he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I did not ...

My husband is angry and said I was careless!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - Hy.im muslim.my hubby got 2nd marriage.its a long story bt the short question is my husband shared something with me about hr..one day my husband nephew borrowed my phone when he was going with hr friends.me gave n he changed the sim.bt didnt ...

My wife doesn't like the expensive present I got from a female co-worker. What should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

6 January 2016 (M) - Hi all Where I work, its mostly with women and as a result I am friendly and comfortable around women,although my wife isn't too happy about it.There's one particular girl who I work very closely with and I'll admit i get on particularly well wit...

My husband threw me under the bus with his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I resent my husband and don't know where to go from here. On new years eve we had my brother in-law and his family here to bring in the new year. Everything was going good until about 12:30 am when my brother in-law thought it would be Ok to b...

Has my husband lost interest in me? Does he want out? Do I want out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I have already posted a few times, asking for advice on opinions and your comments were always on point. This time it’s not about my friends or relatives, it’s about my husband. I think that he’s losing interest in me or that he finally realized...

My mom is sick, dad doesn't believe her and its taking a toll on my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I'm 25 and my parent constantly fight. My mom has health problems in which doctors do not know what is wrong with her. Her body aches and she cannot stay away for very long. This has been going on for about 10 years. Because doctors do not k...

I lost the two most important people in my life in a span of 2 months. How am I supposed to rebuild?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - For the most part I am a positive person and try to give off positive energy to others. But the last few months have been hell for me. I feel like I'm going to have a mental break down. 2015 was a horrible year for me. I lost my father on thanks...

Is he with me or his family? I can't decide.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - I know a lot of people are going to probably tell me to leave this guy, but really I'm just wondering if there is any way that a break up could be avoidable. Even if a break up is the best thing, I'm more curious to see what the running up options ...

He asks such nonsense questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - Is it just me or other experience that their husband ask a nonsense question? Such as when I put my yoga mat on the floor to do some stretching he bombarded me with questions before I could even answer the first one. Like, Where did you get that...

How can I help my daughter to get through the hurt of a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - I have a 26 year old daughter. She is a very intelligent nice young woman although quite shy. Her and I have a close relationship and really all we had is each other. Her dad has never been in the picture and she has no siblings so she has alway...

How can I slowly heal from this and let him go and move on. What should I do when he reels me in ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - I been seeing this guy while going thru separation . He and I worked together for 3 months or so. He used to be in to me until we started sleeping together then he slowedly distancing and emailing and texting me every 3 or 4 days. Then he always ...

My married son is going away to meet up with a woman he is attracted to. Do I tell his wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - Hello. Thank you for reading this. I am having a problem with my son and his wife and I could do with some honest advice. My son has been married for 3 years to his wife. Prior to the wedding they had dated for about 7 years. They now have tw...

I can't seem to make a relationship with a man work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We were together for about 6 months. This was my longest relationship and I lost my virginity to him. As with most of my past relationships, they start very exciting and lovey-dovey, then fizzle out. We h...

I'm hurt and feel disrespected because of the way my husband kept looking at a woman all night

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - Went out new years eve to a hotel party. The hotel asked when we booked a while back if we minded sitting with other people, we said thats ok as we were by ourselves just hubby and me. Found that we were sitting with other couples and there ...