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Why has he no backbone?

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Question - (8 January 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2016)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have left my husband as he has a bad shame problem. His uncle bully's him non stop and shames him about me. He has been jealous of our relationship since we got together and try's to split us up as he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I did not like him, he is a horrible drug dealer.

Anyway he constantly puts my husband down such as saying things like oh you only listen to your wife, your wife is ugly and all kinds of things. He wants to use my husband to deal drugs for him etc and my husband will not stand up to him and is being horrible towards me and so I have left.

My husband knows his uncle is a nasty piece of work and just wants to use him so why does he not stand up to him? My husband always was saying why can't he just leave me alone, but why not just tell him to get lost then?

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A female reader, Petina57 United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2016):

Petina57 agony auntYou've left him now. Move on with your life and try to get away from the uncle if he starts bothering you. If hubby wants you back make some conditions and see if you can both move away from the bad influences that have been destroying you. Good luck, hope this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2016):

If your man can not take you both away from this bad situation, that can and will only lead to trouble, then you have already done the right thing by leaving. Well done! for not getting dragged down a dark path , which would have ended up happening, one way or another.

Please stay strong and clear headed...a massive NO to any form of drug dealing or been around it.

You have a bright future away from this life.

Good Luck

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