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*shmal
writes:Hy.im muslim.my hubby got 2nd marriage.its a long story bt the short question is my husband shared something with me about hr..one day my husband nephew borrowed my phone when he was going with hr friends.me gave n he changed the sim.bt didnt delete msgs n anything.he is not negtive so didnt thank about it.he worked with my husband wife.she knew it was my phone.she asked to open the pasword so she can see his snaps of trip.bt actuly she took phone to chk the text.she read everything about our relation.wat he does n wat shares with me.then had fight with my hubby.My husband became angry that u broke my trust u are care less.i know its my fault n careless bt not my intnsion.bt the othr did with plan n intnsn.she made me bad.he said she is bad bt u gave hr chance n weekness.how to make him undrstand that i didnt broke the trust bt she..n if she knows its bcz of hr not of me.n he shouldnt chnge his behaviour n thinking bcz of hr..othr has done it many time use people for information.i live with family n she lives alone..waiting for more n more suggestios n advice..plz all aunts n uncles reply must
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reader, Tottochan  +, writes (7 January 2016):
You should tell your husband that it was completely unintentional from your side. Don't try and make her look like the bad guy because that won't look good from you.
Just apologise and tell him that you never meant to hurt anyone. And just forget about this entire incident.
It is good if you have good relationships with your in-laws, because you might get at least moral support at times like these.
All the best.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (7 January 2016):
 You just have to ride this one out. Also learn the lesson about saying only what you would say to a person's face. Then if they find out, you stand buy what has been written or said. Finally be aware of the trail you leave in emails and texts. Everything can be seen if the right person is looking.
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