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Love stories: Help and advice

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and ...

I really liked him! Did he want me to stay for a reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I really hope im right about this situation. Thing is ive liked this guy for nearly a year and i thought he liked me. But he never really spoke to me much he just mainly stared at me, sometimes he would talk to me normally other times he wouldnt. I ...

My boyfriend wants to join the army, but how will I stop worrying about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Recently i met one of the most amazing guys ive ever met. I love him so much and i feel like i would die without him. We're serious about our relationship and plan on getting married someday. however his life plan is to join the ...

She talked about heartbreak with an ex friend, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I've not been on one of these forums before, so apologies in advance if I'm not clear I have a bit of a confusing situation with my current long term girlfriend. I have recently overheard my girlfriend telling one of her frien...

Not sure how I feel, do I want the relationship to go on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my BF for almost 6 months. He’s a great guy and I really couldn’t ask for more. He treats me well, he respects me and he’s planning his future with me. I however often get confused. When we first started going out I left him for som...

I'm so insecure in my relationship all of a sudden! How can I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ...

We've been together 4 months and thinking of getting engaged! Don't want ppl to think I'm stupid.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 19, and me and my boyfriend are thinking of getting engaged. We've both finished college and we both have good jobs. We've only been together 4 months, but i've never felt like this about anyone before (and i've had a fair few relatio...

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

Should we date or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So, I like my friend. We have great chemistry, but the problem is that I'm reluctant to date. I think dating is too cliched as teenagers (holding hands in school, calling each other every night, etc.) I feel as though if I date him things will be ...

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is ...

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - ...

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single...

Why am I falling for a guy whose cheated in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - what is wrong with me? why am i in love with a player? hes cheated on his past two gfs and im sure if i get with him he would cheat. i never liked him before only recently i have never done anything with him. i just think about him alot. he doesnt ...

Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple o...

Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minut...

We're 9 years apart and we're living together, but he's changed since I moved in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi...I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now...I met him through his brother and started a long distance relation ship. He lived in NY and me in FL..I decided to meet him after talking to him for 7 months..It was like love at first ...

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting ...

Can someone explain to me what LOVE is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Can someone explain to me what LOVE is? My Mother thinks it is remaining monogamous for 53 years. Till my Father died. I don't know I have had 3 Long lasting relationships in life the latter ending in Marriage. I still don't know what love is...

Love stories...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

21 January 2010 (?) - I just wanted to say that I'm love, and it feels great. It's unrequited, but it really makes my life better. This isn't exactly an advice question, I just wanted to hear anyone else's love stories because this site always seems so depressing, why ...

Any 'different' ideas for a gift for Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and I honestly love him with all my heart. Well, this Valentine's Day, we decided to make each other something, not go out and try to spend money on each other. He told me he's going to ...

He's losing interest and slipping away! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i've had a major crush on a boy in my year for a while now. i thought he was interested but he seems to be slipping away from me if that makes sense.he is pretty popular whereas i am not so sometimes he doesnt talk to me around some of his friends. ...

She taken and lives far away..and I really like her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Here's my story. A year ago, I was dumped for the 3rd time by my girlfriend, which happily ended what was, I realise it now, a disastrous relationship. We were only together for 6 months and long distance (she's English and she lives in France ...

I love my girlfriend and feel like I have a boring personality and she doesn't want to talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Hey. I have this big problem where my girlfriend thinks that i'm completely different from her and is better for us to be apart(which i don't agree at all). She really loves me and I do too and it will devastate her if we were to be apart and she ...

I really love my best guy friend, now he's engaged and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I'm afraid of losing my best guy friend. I've loved him forever and been afraid to tell him for fear of losing him, maybe just fear it wont be recepricated. We spend a lot of time together always have, I tell him almost everything, not this. He's ...

GF cheated on me, should I forgive or let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Been dating a great woman for almost 10 years, and have trusted with 100% for the entire time, but she cheated recently. What do i do? She started to have drunken sex with a friend but stopped within seconds. She is completely devastated that she ...

We have a baby together and he's confessed he lied about his age! How am I supposed to trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relatioship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I fell madly in love with him we have a 5 month old baby together now. He recently confessed that he is actually 12 years older than me. (I am 26) When we first met he told me ...

We broke up bust still love each other like crazy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I was in a 10 month relationship, a lot of arguing but still a good one in my opinion. He said he wanted to take a break, just a few weeks to see if we still wanted to be together or if we could find someone else we wanted to be with. 2 weeks after ...

Has anyone been in a situation where you are best friends for years and eventually you do become a couple? I am really hoping that will be the case for us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I'm 26 (male) and my best friend (same age, female) who I've known since school days suffers from low self esteem. There's too many details to go into, but basically her family are split up and she says she never felt wanted and no one ever cared ...

I tell myself I am happy just being his good friend, but what if I come to regret this decision later on in life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi all. This is the first time I'm doing this and hoping I'm doing it the correct way. So, here goes. I first met this guy when I started university, let's just call him Dodo. At that time, I was only 19. We were classmates and we got close ...

Is minimal contact best way to fall out of love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I fell for my best friend (female). Didn't say, because I was certain she didn't feel the same, although we are ridiculously close. Anyway, many of our mutual friends were convinced she did feel the same, as although she denied it verbally, her ...

Could he really be in love with me after only 2 weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks now and tonight during sex (he was about to finish) he said my name, took a long pause and said "i love you." i responded by laughing saying "no you dont." and that its only been a couple weeks. he ...