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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I've got my wall up and I don't want to let anyone in, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I had been with my man for 2 years before we broke up and I went travelling for a year.. Got back a month ago and we've hung out for the entire weekend every weekend since I've been back and have been hooking up.. I still have feelings for him and I ...

2 years of talking and now he's pressuring to meet. I've gained weight and don't want to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3735 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - So I have been talking to a guy I met online who lives across the country. We talk everyday for 2 years but we haven't met yet. We've talked on the phone and cammed before and sent each other a lot of pictures. I really like him even though I think ...

Hardened intuition- trust or not??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - My long distance boyfriend (we are in our late 40s) insists that he is fully committed to me, is exclusive and has plans for us to retire together In 10 years... He was married for a year when he was 19 then played the field as a partying bachelor. ...

It seems like he can't make time to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 2 years, currently we are in LDR due to his work. Its been days since he contacted me, he talks to me only once a week for few mins. I call him once everyday he never picks, if he does always finds reason to cut th...

My friends say I can have my pick of girls here but I've fallen for this American

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading. It's quite funny as I always get asked for advice and I'm normally good at giving it but this time I need some help. I live in London and vacation in Florida every year. I came back 3 days ago and I'm miserable as hell. I met...

Why does she keep sending mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I have fallen in love with a women 6 hours from me. She has told me how much she loves me and when I asked her to move here with me in my home, she said she cannot due to her girls. She said she cannot have what she wants right now. Then she goes...

My LDR has admitted to ongoing cheating. Do I fight for us or sit back while he leaves me for the other girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years just told me he cheated on me...by text message. He met this girl, got her number, has been hanging out with her, going out in groups, hanging at her house, and having sex with her. He told me and seemed to think that since ...

Is he making enough effort in this LDR? He is reluctant to visit me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I go to the school about an hour and half from where my boyfriend (of two years) goes to school. Recently I've been getting more and more frustrated with the amount of traveling I have to do to see him. I've traveled to see him 4 times now and he ...

He's moving to another country. How do I handle losing the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - So this is a really heartbreaking time for me. My OH and I have been together for almost 3 years. It was an epic love affair like in the movies, we really "get" one another and we have been through hell and back many times but we survived it all.We ...

Ever since boyfriend showed me naked photos of him and his ex girlfriends things have changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and things started out beautiful but that something beautiful is dying now. We met through an social network dating site and when we first decided to meet up, I was reluctant and scared, but I went ...

He doesn't seem interested in me or our new baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I would like to hear some of your perspectives on what I'm going through: I used to live in a foreign country (as an expat) and I met another guy (also an expat from a different country). We started seeing each other and in a short time I got...

I'm still hoping we can make it work but I'm jealous of his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

LDR since Dec 2013. Plan to see each other in 2015. So why did she get upset about talk on intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since Dec 2013. We met online and in one month, we will finally meet in person. She will introduce me to her family and relatives, and well even be going to an island resort fo...

Should I visit him? LDR going wrong. Are these signs evidence that he does not care enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - I ve been in a relationship with this guy for 7 months now. He's an athlete and used to play for my country. When we first met,i just came out of a relationship and had no interest in starting a new one,but he was so understanding and gave me time...

How can I let go of my fears and just trust my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3743 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. He has never given me a reason to not trust him, we've never had even a fight, but I'm terrified he will cheat on me. He is in a different, nice country right now for a few months and I just am so ...

If I resume with my original BF (who cut contact for months) will he be able to tell that I had sex with a bigger guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend but he went abroad in jan 2014 and he hasn't contacted me anymore. After 4 months, I called him and asked if we're still together, he said yes. So i still hope that we will still continue to communicate but he never chatted ...

I'm suspicious of my LDR and his ex-girlfriend, and we've been fighting about it. Is there any chance this relationship can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

One month LDR, and one of my best friends does not like him. Does that matter? Was it wrong for me to have words with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Hello fellow cupid readers, sorry a bit of background is needed for this. i am in an ldr with my bf of 1 month but we have been incredibly close friends since we were two and we are both now fifteen even though i only see him like four times a year...

After everything I did for him, LDR guy breaks off with me through a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - I met this man over this past summer in June that I thought was amazing. He was here for a 3 month internship and was going to leave to go back and finish his last year of school in a town 6 hours away (45 min plane ride). I met him through my ...

He slept with 2 other women while we weren't official and I can't get past it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - I met this guy in the states this winter whom i started dating. He is from Australia and we hit it off and had a thing for about 3 months then he left back to Australia. We discussed that it would be dumb for us to be together because were in two ...

I want the freedom to test the waters but my ex won't let go

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I am a freshman at college in my third week and I broke up with my bf at the start. He loves me soo much but almost too much. He also now lives two hrs away. I need a real and tangible relationship, not just skype dates. But at the same time ...

My boyfriend's female friend doesn't like me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I am frustrated with myself and my boyfriend. We were in a distance relationship but I moved to live with him about six months ago. Mostly it's been great. He has this female friend though. I've never felt that comfortable about their friendship cos ...

LDR--Does he like me or just trying to impress me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3747 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I have fallen for a man miles away. He tries to say things in many languages and change up how he says goodbye. He shows more interest now than ever in talking and wanting to meet up. I was wondering if this is a sign that he likes me or if he is ...

Since we've been long distance it seems like I've taken a back seat

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

16 September 2014 (M) - So my Girlfriend of 5 years now has been working in another county for just over 6 months now because she is saving up the money. Luckily she works for an airline so i have seen her about 3 times as she travels. However the things that are bothering ...

I'm truly in love with my boyfriend, but he wants to join the RAF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - I'm truly in love with my boyfriend, but he wants to join the RAF. This means we won't be able to live together, or spend time together for long periods and I hate feeling worried and upset about it, when it's his dream. I know it worries him too....

Am I just being jealous? Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live 2000 miles apart! We met online. Well we talk everyday and have already told each we love and care about one another and talk about he wants me to move out there ...

I hear less and less from my LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I really don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. We're in a fairly long distance relationship, about four hours away, so it's not easy seeing each other. At first it was fine because we'd text and skype all the time, but recently things have ...

We have feelings for each other but he's leaving for Iraq soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - Basically a good friend of mine is going to fight in Iraq an I've started getting feeling for him. We want to be together but we also both know that it's close to impossible since we already live so far away from each other. I'm confused an don't ...

Is she loyal or disrespectful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 September 2014 (M) - Hi, I have been dating my gf for more than 2 years now and we are deeply in love. We have a great sense of understanding. Recently her job took her to another city. We do keep in touch daily. Now, the problem is her colleague is really inter...

I'm pregnant and alone, an Army wife stressed by my mother-in-law's comments on Facebook!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - I dated my husband for 6 years and we just got married before he joined the Army. I'm 35 weeks so far and it's been very stressful and a lonely experience for me, I'm living alone in our old apartment and his parents are not far from me. The only ...

We've been chatting but now that I'm coming to her city she seems flaky or scared about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

8 September 2014 (M) - Hi guys. I met a girl couple of months ago on her last day in my city. That evenung and thereafter we kept in touch on facebook chat. We havr gotten to know each other eell now after many chats and aldo now i have called her once and talked on the p...

Confusion in a long-distance relationship, will she ever become more affectionate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

8 September 2014 (M) - Hello everyone, I will firstly give some context on the situation. I am currently in a long-distance relationship with a woman who lives in Italy. I live in the UK. We have been together for 8 months. We were living in the UK together until a...

LDR Newbie needs your help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 September 2014 (F) - Any LDR 411s on here? I am new to LDR and think I may have found the one guy that makes my heart melts and understand me. I am the kind of person that hated LDR and preached against it but said if I ever get into one I first want to make sure one...

What Am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - do you sometimes feel the entire world is against you? and nothing you do is good? Well yesterday i felt that way. First my on again off again boyfriend - we are in a long distance relationship for more than 11 years, YES long distance relationship ...

LDR- he needs space, am I reacting right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with a man i met five years ago and we have been dating since march of this year. i am in love with him and i feel he is too, hes the sweetest, loving, caring and kind man i always wanted. i can be myself around ...

We both love each other but we both want to go home ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the most amazing guy for the past 3 months . We currently work and live in the same town and get along so well it's a perfect match. However , I miss my friends and family at home so much and really want to move ...

I do not want to send him the pictures he asks for. Why should I send these pictures?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - im dating tanzanian man since like 7 months ago we chatting every day online. he is calling me on viber...he sent me pictures of his private parts,and he said he wants pictures of my private parts. i said yes to him but i do not want to send suc...

My LDR can't get past the fact that my best friend is an ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - Hey everyone well I have this question that has been bugging my mind ! I've been speaking to someone for well over a year now and I'm glad he has stuck around. Honestly this is a long distance relationship and I have heard everything about LDRs but ...

Words of wisdom for starting a LDR? Boyfriend going away to college

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half years, and the time has finally come for him to go off to university in nine days. I'm a year younger, so I'm only beginning the application process at the moment. H...

A man who is so afraid to lose me, he opted for lying

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - I met a good looking turkish man over the nternet 6 years ago. The chemistry was awesome , we spoke almost everyday on all these years , unti I stumble upon his picture and his real name on facebook. Call it God's guidance , imagine after six years. ...

His first weekend out in America and my B/f got a lapdance and kissed a stripper! The trust is completely gone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3yrs. He is younger than me. He had the opportunity to go to Florida to study for a year, which I have supported and encouraged. I was, however, aware of all the temptations that would be there in Miami etc for...