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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My LDR boyfriend broke up with me...When I asked him the reason, he said he didn't have one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping intouch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend alot of time wi...

LDR or the guy who's nearer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he ...

My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable...do you think he'll call me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable at the best of times - and even when I ask him things he can never give me a straight answer! - Anyway, the other day I text suggesting we don't see each other again if he can't make more sense to me - and he ...

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...

How to make long distance relationships work. Is this one worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - im from other country but living in india and studying here , i met a girl who was from other country too and she was came here just for visiting . i met her and we talked couple hours about general things , during that i asked her age , and she ...

Why does he say yes to talking to me online when he always falls asleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I Feel like I am going crazy! I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing man for a year and a half. He has to kids, owns his own business and drives four hours to come see me almost every week. I am an assistant in a busy salon, am full ...

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me for family reasons. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've dated for boyfriend for 9 months now, 6 of which he has lived on the other side of the country. It's a two day drive to get there, so we normally just fly back and forth. I'm still here in the city in which I've been born and raised. I'm ...

We have very different sex drives! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - im in a same sex, long distance relationship. my girlfriend and i have been together for 1year but only get to see each other every other weekend. my problem is that we have very different sex drives! i have a low sex drive and consider sex onc...

I haven't heard from him in a while and I am very worried. He's in the Army.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi. On November 1st, 2010 I met a man who is currently in Iraq in the Army. We met because I am a volunteer through a website (send care packages, cards, etc to soldiers who don't normally get anything). He was requesting books so I wrote to find ...

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. ...

Does this sound like my LDR BF has fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in separate countries, we've been together for 5 months and everything was great at first. But he'd have his days where he's all nice and lovely. Then the next he barely says two words. But lately I feel like the gap between ...

This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted...

LDR GF does not reciprocate my feelings, but there is this close friend who...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi. I've been in a LDR for about a year now. i love my gf and she loves me the same. recently i have found myself doing quite more "sweet and romantic" things more than her. its bothered me for a while and now i cant take it any more. i thought i ...

Confused by my girlfriend's behaviour.....what should I do?

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29 March 2011 (M) - she was my best friend in school...met her after 6 yrs..now we are in a relation for about 5 months. we like each other a lot. she clearly loves me, but doesnt say so [very rarely she tells]. she justifies if she says "i love you" she has to keep ...

Should I stay with a great guy in a LDR or look closer to home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I met a great guy while working in another city for 3 months and we started a relationship which we continued long distance for the past 6 months. He's wonderful, nothing wrong with him, and I love him but I feel I don't want to be in a LDR. I ...

Was my long distance girl using me? Or is it something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - hey this is in regards to long distance realtiolnsihp/ romance. any help or expect advice in this area would be appreciative I posted a while ago about how i maintained my distance from my long distance lover (girl) because of fear of heartb...

Should I move on with things? Or do I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - The man that I have been seeing for the past 3 months left to travel around South America for the next 6 months about 2 weeks ago. We were very much "together" before he went away and spent as much time together in those 3 months as possible. I had ...

Does this make me or him the selfish one here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Does this make me or him the selfish one here? So im in a LDR and we talk everyday, miss one day and we kinda miss each other and 2 days is just hell. Anyways...I talked to him for a little while on saturday and on sunday he was a no show...did...

Girlfriend or father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - hi, i'm a fourteen year old boy and il tell you a little bit of background about my situation first. i'v been going out with my girlfriend for eight months now and i really love her, i can't think about anyone else and its going really well. it's a ...

Are my feelings towards him changing just because I don't see him as often as I use to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I first starting going out with my boyfriend about 5 years ago, he cheated on me and really hurt me, so we split up about 2 years into the relationship. Now we're back together, we're both mature enough to have a relationship. He then got a job 2 ...

I don't want to be 40 years old and coming home to a computer, not a husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Im just curious here but im in a LDR and have been for around 2years and a half. I met him online and yes I have met him. We have many ups and downs and have had some incredibly low times where you would think we would break up but havent. We ...

Emotional connection or LUST?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - i have a question here............................... IAM in a LDR.... and living 2000 km away from my guy so it gets very difficult for us to see each other .......... in these 3 years we could hardly meet twice a year..... and each time we plan ...

I love him but I'm scared I don't see how this can work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4824 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - in high school i date this guy name tim and he and i had a baby together i had to drop out as he finshed school i was very jealouse of him .. but anyways.. years gone by and his best friend in high school added me to his facebook.. he wa...

Need help dealing with my long distance relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - I miss her a lot I don't understand why some days she calls me up on the phone and wants to talk to me like last nite. Well I have not talked to her and about a month then just yesterday she called me up again and wanting to talk to me. So we hit it ...

G/f doesn't think LDR is going to work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - My "girlfriend" has been acting different for a while. She was supposed to come home with me over spring break, and she didn't. She said it was because of gas at first, but I said I would pay for some. Then she said it was a hard for week, which I ...

I'm pretty sure my girlfriend wants to end it but I don't. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

Sometimes when I text "I love you" he responds with a smiley face.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - OK sooo..... i dated this guy 6 months ago. we dated for a month. we broke up because he was moving. i have known him for 3 years now. we have been talking the whole time he has been gone and a few weeks ago he sent me a text saying that he loved me ...

How do I get my long distance boyfriend back? He has not texted in several days.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I need advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back. This is a long distance relationship. We haven't exactly broken up but he has not returned my texts in a few days. I have heard that not texting him is the way to go but I just need some advice. ...

Why is he treating me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend online......1 year 6 months back... He is older than me I am 16 and he is 27...After 1 year he started ignoring me...started ignoring my calls.....I sent him e-mails....He didn't replied then I decided to move on....But he came ...

How will I know he is cheating on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I met this guy online.. we chatted for a year now..and we are in a long distance relationship..we haven't met e yet..but he has plan to see me soon..but then we broke up.. because i think he is cheating on me.. i am wondering why he is invisible ...

I put forth so much effort in LDR but don't feel boyfriend does the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - Im in a LDR...have been now for 2 and a half years and I love him, I dont know what I would do without this guy, he means so much to me and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Issue with me is...everyday I tell him how much I love him ...

He says I'm on thin ice with him. I know its my fault and I don't want to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore. Im i dont know im lost. Im truly in love with this guy (were in a long distance relationship) and I think Ive just lost him. I uhmm well Im not the most attractive girl in the world but Im not ugly but Im over-wei...

Does he really love me? And seeing as we both say we love each other, does this mean we are in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - Ok so here's the thing. I have recently been talking to a guy online and he seems really nice, we used to talk every day and about a month ago he told me he loves me and he then went quiet on me to the point where i would be lucky to speak to him ...

Long distance drama

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a problem with my new girlfriend, I am bi not a les. We have been dating since january of this year I have known her for about 6 or 7 months now and I met her here in my state, she moved back to her home state before we start...

What is love and can it survive distance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - I just want to know the meaning of love. What is love in general? What is being in love? What is true love? Ive been in a LD relationship for over 2 years and people keep telling me it wont/cant work. Well we have been through a lot together...

Had a strange dream after we got back together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend two years ago 2009. We had a good relatioship and we were happily inlove with each other. But after 5 months of our relationship I left and we decided to have a long distance relationship. We were in long distance relationship for ...

She never says anything complimentary about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 March 2011 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 6 weeks. We live 80 miles apart so I only see her once mid-week and stay at her place over the weekends. She is so physically affectionate, in every area, staring into my eyes, even loves grabbing my hand over the table ...

How can you mend a broken heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - How do you mend a broken heart? I know this is probably one of the most common questions but i'm heartbroken and some days im fine, other days I cant seem to pull it together. My ex and I were together for 2 n a half years, long distance. We...

I hate sleeping alone and I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hi there. Me and my boyfriend live far away from each other and only see each other on weekends. I'm so in love with him, so it's really hard when he's away. I also find it extremely hard to sleep on my own, so I need him at night time. Do you have ...

He makes me feel like I'm not worth his attention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, it is a long distance thing and so quite hard to judge what is going on. When we first met he was texting me everyday around 5 times a day, he made a big effort on the first date and would text to say how ...

I cant make my mind up on which of these guys I want to be with.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hiya... 5 weeks ago i told my bf that we should go on a break... as he lives so far away and we dont see each other.. but the promblem is that i have been seeing this guy (jim) (not real name).. , who makes me feel special and is always there fo...

Should I suggest he propose before I agree to another year of LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I will soon have been dating for 2 years. He’s got a job he loves (with a modest salary) in one city, and I am a grad student with a decent assistantship in another city 1.5 hours away. As time goes by, distance gets harder, ...

I can't take it anymore, should I bring this up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - I've recently been posting questions here on dear cupid asking advice towards an awkward situation right after meeting my LDR for the first time a week ago after talking for over 4 years. Despite the awkward feeling that occured after our visit ...

Internet dating... he thinks it's too soon, but I want him!

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20 March 2011 (F) - ok well lets say the guys name is shade well my story is we met online and he had a girlfriend but we were only friends but then they finished and i started seeing him im living in limerick where he lives 2 maybe 3 days a week the rest the week he ...

Married three years, never lived together due to immigration.....should I ask for a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - i have been married for almost 3years now.my husband and i have lived apart the whole time.i lost my 1st baby and i havent had another since then-2 years now.we are having problems getting me across there.the separation is taking a huge toll on our ...

I broke up with boyfriend, we still love each other and want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Well, it happened.. But I broke it off for the right reasons. I couldn't carry on the relationship knowing I was just taking up space for his chances to have a true relationship, since ours was long distance. He lives across the world. The other...

Why it is ok if my boyfriend hangs up on me but I can't do that to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) - What do I do? My long distance boyfriend of about 6 years off and on was talking to me on the phone yesterday, and i was telling him about something important, i might have a brain tumor and have to go get checked next week. he wasn't even listening ...

I love him but don't get enough from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 2 years now in a long distance relationship. he barely talks to me now a days. says hes too busy with his work and parties every weekend. i feel really dejected. i know he will not cheat on me. he is 5 years ...

I don't know if I can wait 1.5 years to see him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I just want an advice on whether I should continue this LDR or break it off... I'm 19 from Aus and my boyfriend (22) lives in Costa Rica. We've been in this LDR for about almost 3 years, we met online, I don't care what you think about it but I ...

I finally met my ldr, why do I feel like we keep drifting after our first meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - For those of you who want to read my original question here's the link. I recommend you read it to understand what this question is about. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-4-years-i-finally-met-my-ld.html I posted that a week ago now. ...