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female
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36-40,
*araja1
writes:i have a question here............................... IAM in a LDR.... and living 2000 km away from my guy so it gets very difficult for us to see each other .......... in these 3 years we could hardly meet twice a year..... and each time we plan for 4- day trip .... i wonder every time most of the time we do SEX especially the first day is JUST SEX......and in next days... i cook we eat drink together watch tv sleep cuddle , take bath together(with no sex) and talk and SEX( too much).......... we behave as if we are starved and at once we find lots n lots food infront of us ...... my guy fell inlove before i came into his life twice and when i asked him that was he like that in other two relations? he said : no he wasnt .... those were calmer relations not hungry kind of thing..... i said then how come with me ur extremely lusty..... he said : for them i was emotionaly involved and before they were in my life, i had been having too much sex already so with them i was lil calmer ..... but with you i am emotionally and sexually involve and when u came into my life, i had been sexually deprived for two years....... and when we meet we have little time and i never get enough of u so i feel like making most of it ...feel as if i wanna absorb u and eat u out fully and keep it stored in my body ....now i wanna understand is this an LUST with emotional connection or just LUST?pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 not getting enough of u shows he wants u a lot and misses u a lot.
i wouldnt be worried if i were you.
if its emotional connection or lust,u will know this by all the other time you spend apart.
question is,how longer are u be in an LDR??
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reader, d'writer  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Hi, gut feel from a fellow woman. Your man loves you! We must admit that sex is part of relationship and that's natural. Having sex just for the heck of it is different thing, got my point?I'm trying to put my own shoe into your man's feeling. I'm like him tho I'm a woman. I was in a LDR before and we meet just at least once a month and I always look forward to that. I love him so much that I always crave for him sexually (I'm upfront) whenever we meet, I tend to be so hot and wild to fully express how much I really missed him, and that's my true feeling about him. For some people, one way of expressing their feeling or attachment most especially if they seldom see their partners is to be extremely hot at the moment they see them again. You should wonder and doubt if after not seeing each other for quite sometime you will feel that he's losing his sexual interest in you. The mere fact that he still take the time to see you and spend quality time with you despite the distance means he really loves you and not just lust. If I were you, I should smile if he's extremely lusty with me than the the others in the past because it would only mean that I'm yummier than them and I should take that as a compliment ;)
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