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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:in high school i date this guy name tim and he and i had a baby together i had to drop out as he finshed school i was very jealouse of him .. but anyways.. years gone by and his best friend in high school added me to his facebook.. he was barely on because he was busy in the marines.. but when he was on we talked all the time! for as long as he could! we then exchange our number because facebook wasnt doing it for us anymore we need to talk a little more often! lol but then feelings started happening when things happen we were the first people we call he i and i him he ended up being on the other side of the united states.. but in a few months he was moving just a few states away from me about 12 hour drive from so he asked me to visit him .. which was scary because i hadnt seen him since high school which was almost 3 years ago! But i did and he paid for it all everything to the plane ticket to the hotel to the food :D it was the best three days :D we then started a long distance relationship. shortly after i went to see him again but drove the next time .. it took about 13 hours to get there but it was worth it.. we spent the next 4 days together until i went home.. after that... we realized being apart was way to hard so we broke up... we both tried to date again but nothing for me as far as a kiss just wasnt the same as kissing him.. he dated as aas far as i know nothing happened.. but i dont want to know .. anyways we didnt talk for months because we both thought we were mad at each other and also thought it would be best to move on that way if we didnt talkon day someone started talking to someone.. and well the feelings are still there... but there is no way i can be with him... and its not going to work for us if we are soo far apart ... marraige was often thrown in there but i dont want to marry someone and realize that he feels trapped later.. we are still young and as much as i want to be with him i dont want to make him and i wont.. but how is this going to work? he is going back to the other side of the united states for three months..i dont know ...he also wants me to visit him again with my son... and i want to but i just dont know when.. im scared... But i do love him!
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reader, innocentfacadexx +, writes (8 October 2011):
 Did you ever consider moving to the same place? If the thought of marriage was thrown around it seems acceptable to me that you could compromise and move to the same town.
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