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writes:My "girlfriend" has been acting different for a while. She was supposed to come home with me over spring break, and she didn't. She said it was because of gas at first, but I said I would pay for some. Then she said it was a hard for week, which I understood. But I would try texting her and it seemed like she didn't want to talk. The first thing we talk about is what we are going to do over the summer, because we live 3 hrs away. Yesterday I asked her about all these things, and she said she tried a long distance relationship in the past and it didn't work. I told her i can come and visit on the weekends because she is getting a job over the summer. She then replies with she thinks that isnt good enough for her. She said she hasn't felt the spark we had when we first started dating for the past month. We are supposed to talk about what's goin to happen to us today. I'm not ready to end this. I truly love her and I'm willing to do what ever t takes to get her back and at least try it. I need help, any advice?
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reader, LunaticLove92 +, writes (27 March 2011):
Man, sorry to say, its kinda out of your hands, if she has set that yall are breaking up, its going to happen. Unless you got some damn good solutions and some smooth talking. This has happened to me before except it was long distance, she wouldnt want to see me for days on end...turned out she was cheating on me with my best friend...but we're currently still together...so I guess just do your best, if you truly love her then tell her that, but if she doesnt feel the same dont force her to stay with you, it wont work out. Good luck
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