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*ovelygal
writes:I need advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back. This is a long distance relationship. We haven't exactly broken up but he has not returned my texts in a few days. I have heard that not texting him is the way to go but I just need some advice. I really love this man and I know he loves me too. We are both going through a lot of personal problems and I know we belong together. Please help if you can.
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reader, lovelygal +, writes (30 March 2011):
lovelygal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have decided just to let things be. If you love someone let them go...if they come back to you they are yours forever and if they don't they were never yours to begin with. I love this man with all my heart but a long distance relationship is so much harder that what I thought it would be. We both need time to get our lives situated. I made a huge mistake in letting this happen before we both figured that out. It all happened too fast and what looks too good to be true more than likely is. Thank you for your advice.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Dear friend,
You explain that both have a lot of problems, but no matter how bad its no phone call or text for days is no excuse..
Something is not right & you deserve to know.. If I were you, I would call or send a text. Talk to him nicely, ask how's he's doing & that you're worry that you haven't heard from him for days..& that you were concern..
From then on, when you get the chance to talk to him, explain to him how you feel & make things clear between you & him. Reasure that you both are still exclusive couple.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): If your last talk ended up good then you have no reason to get worried as you have mentioned you are both having personal problems. Trust your instinct. Give him time, sooner or later he will let you know what had happened. Meanwhile do your own thing and keep yourself busy.
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reader, Foxxy1 +, writes (27 March 2011):
What was your last conversation like? Was there any querrel? Did he express anything to you that sounded like he's getting tired of the long distance relationship and how it is going?
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