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In a man's mind, why would he ask you to turn off the light to kiss him? I thought that men liked women to do the opposite.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - What does it mean when a man wants to kiss you in the dark? Call me paranoid but I get the feeling that's a bad sign. I have self image related problems and far less from perfect but I'm always trying to improve the quality of my life- although...

I'm worried about my erections when I'm with her in person!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing and extremely attractive woman. We have spent a number of weeks together in person now in the real world, and I would definitely say we understand each other very well and are very comfortable with ...

Painful breakup and I can't seem to move on, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - It's been well over 5 months since we broke up. We were together for 2 years and were childhood friends too so we know each other's deepest corners. We've been through so much and I know in my heart that I will always love him, and I also know that ...

Broke up with my cheating boyfriend and now I am pregnant, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I have just found out that i am pregnant and i am absolutely devastated. My ex put me through hell for the past 2 1/2 years with constant lies, cheating and disrespect. He has alot of issue with porn addiction gambling etc and is involved in crim...

I'm having sex dreams about my average teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I'm 18 so its not like I'm new to the dating pool or even a virgin so most of what happened is strange. I had a dream I had sex with my English teacher, it was amazing but I've never thought about his like for a moment in the past three years that ...

We've been together for 6 months but now he's pushing me away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I'm gonna make this quick. In college, just been diagnosed with epilepsy, secretly depressed - family thing I just can't talk about it. I've been with the most amazing guy for six months, we really love each other. Well I thought we did. I love him ...

Dumped, why am I so upset by this? A normal person would be running for the hills.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I have been gong through a very difficult time these past few months. I had recently broken up with the biggest Casanova I'd ever dated (he had kids and a wife etc.)So a few months later I meet what I thought was my knight in shining armor, boy was ...

Did I over react when I dumped him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend - I guess now ex boyfriend - is in his late 40s. We were dating a year and a half - exclusive for a year and 3 months. Over that time, I brought up the future several times. I want marriage and a kid and am ready to start nesting. He ...

How do I help my son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - Both my sons have left the house and have been in the military. My youngest is currently home visiting, he has time off. Chatting with him, I realized he seems depressed, he has no inspiration for the future, such as college degree or a good job. ...

I am sick of being depressed and it is as if he just doesn't care.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am having problems with my husband not supporting me emotionally. I have depression and anxiety disorder. I become irrational when I feel someone has done me wrong. Multiple times I have gone to my husband in need of emotional support and he ...

Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up...

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and ...

Twenty eight and throwing tantrums

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My lovely live in boyfriend has some sort of anxiety and depression. He has spoken to people about it in the past, and been on antidepressants before my time. His recount on things I've said or scenarios that have happened where he ended up getting ...

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...

My clock is ticking and I want a baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want a baby and I am dating a guy who is 7 years younger than me, i'm nearly 39 and he is just approaching 32 and we have been on and off for over a year but it was just sex that turned into something more but only the last 2 months we have been ...

Started a new diet last week, however its been a week and I have lost no weight. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Hey! Basically I have been un-happy with my weight now for some time and I am REALLY desperate to lose it. It kinda started about a year ago, I got put on these pills which made me put on loads of...

Anyone know about the NHS rules for breast scans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I had breast implants done 11yrs ago. So far my breasts are ok with minor changes. I have some rippling but nothing too major like pain etc. I went back to my surgeon just for a check up. I was expecting him toeither say they are fine or that som...

I've been diagnosed with bipolar but my husband doesn't believe in it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I was diagnosed with Bipolar several months ago, and when I broke the news to my husband he was less than accepting. I told him that I didn't tell him sooner because I was worried he would think I'm crazy, but he said "You're right, I do think ...

Am I wrong for shaving my head even though my gf prefers it long?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm a young guy with an extremely noticeable receding hairline. I'm cool with shaving my head, I think it's comfortable and looks alright on me..but my gf hates! She makes me grow my hair out and it looks ridiculous. Am I wrong for ...

I'm not used to relationships, it's scary and I feel pressure. Is this normal when something is new and different or is he not the one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I met a guy one last year and felt like he was the one. I became so fixed on the idea of him and fantasizing about him. I put up this perfect illusion of him. But we had only met once. A year later, recently, he visited me for about 5 days ...

My friend ditched me when I was going to the hospital. Why did she get angry?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - A friend of mine recently got very angry with me, without me understanding why. I was wondering if you could help me with this. I had become quite sick, and wasn't getting any better. I was talking to my friend that Saturday, and she asked me how...

Is it normal for me to have these thoughts? I have an 'odd' sexuality.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - hi, I used to use this site a lot when i was in a dd/lg relationship when I was 17-19. Since then I went of to University and i'm now 21 and about to graduate. I met someone else, who wasn't 35 years older than me (just 10) and who wanted a stable ...

I think I have anxiety and depression and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

23 May 2014 (M) - hi, i think i have social anxiety and also some depression, what should i do about it? i get really anxious in certain situations, for example going into town clubbing and just generally large group events, im not so bad on the town thing anymore, i ...

We broke up cause he's sick and tired of the argument. Is it already over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me last month as he is just very sick and tired of arguing. He said he thought about it for very long and that it would be better for us. Our relationship was one full of arguments and breakups/makeups the same day, mainly due to ...

I drunk-dialed him, HUGE mistake. How do I get over that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I'd been kind of seeing a guy for about the last six months. Nothing serious, just a lot of chatting and the occasional hookup. The problem is, I REALLY like him and I was beginning to get frustrated with him not seeming to want to commit. Last week ...

My husband's father insists of making dinner for us every week! How do we deal with the problems with that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - So here goes... My husband's father is a very large man whose in poor health. My mother in law and husband treat the time with him as precious. He could go at any time from a heart attack. We can see his health declining every week. He can ...

Is my girlfriend drinking too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - I have a question about my girfriend. I think for a woman she drinks quite a bit. I am not a big drinker, may be that's why for me it seems like a lot. She ussualy goes between 7-10 drinks a week. She doesn't drink every day, but when she is out w...

Help me support my grieving/depressed wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Hi, My wife's mum passed away a few months back and I'm trying my best to be supportive but finding it real difficult. She's a stay at home mum with a 5yr old and 8 yr old, both at school. Our house is so chaotic it's unimaginable. We...

Is he playing games with my head and heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - HI all I am sorry if this is a bit long but I need to get this off my chest and hope to understand a bit better. I first started dating my partner a year ago next week. In the begining he told me he was with someone but has not seen her for...

How do I get him to express his love for me? He and his family withdrew the marriage proposal because of my health!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - Hi Agony aunts there, I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversa...

How do I get my parents to understand this job is making me ill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

22 May 2014 (?) - Literally the day I arrived home for the summer from university, I had a job an hour later. My dad pushed me into this job because he is friends with the manager and I'm grateful for the help, but I'm miserable! I understand that every job has it...

He goes limp! Is it my fault? Is he cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been tighter 16mnts an our sex life was normal nothing freaky or spontaneous but here in da last4 months or so our sex has come to a complete hbought.He can't maintain an erection or when he does it will go limp inside of ...

My boyfriend can't handle stress.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has never been able to handle stress very well. Anytime he has a bad day or is stressed out I usually get the brunt of it. He never tells me what's bothering him I always have to pry it out of him. It always seems to be family and work ...

Nothing turns me on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Why can't I get turned on by anything? I have a bullet vibrator and I don't get any reaction. I watch some porn of different varieties and I don't get turned on. I haven't been turned on masturbating or with any of my boyfriends. The doctors say ...

How can I help him quit pot?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a month now. We have a past and just happened to come back together and fall in love again. He's 16 and he's been smoking pot since he was 10. He used to sell, too, but stopped for me. I used to ...

Is it normal for guys to fantasize about girls they wouldn't normally date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend dislikes the makeup and fake tan and painted on eyebrows look. However, one of his exes and a couple of girls that he has been with look like this. And he checks them out fairly frequently. He watches BBW porn and one of the girls he ...

I used to like my body shape but the digs keep coming ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - In my adult life a LOT of people have asked if I'm pregnant, even though there has never been any reason for it other than my fat belly! A bit of back story, I have a bit of a buddha belly lol, in fact I'm very slim but my belly just puts on all t...

Does wanting to be me make me a bad person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Hello all, I was wondering if you'd be able to help me. I am in a bit of a predicament and when I explain things, I'm probably going to get a lot of stick for it and come across as a selfish whore but I do hope someone can answer me. I have b...

Some small complications with pregnancy, I need some advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Hi all...looking for a bit of advice :) Im currently 30 weeks pregnant and have recently found out of a few small problems with the pregnancy. Thankfully nothing major but i am going into hospital twice a week to be monitored. I am happy that the...

He's so negative that it's bringing me down too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3877 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years seems to be going through some sort of crisis, and I have no idea how to help him or even if that's possible. He keeps saying he hates his life. He hates the fact a lot of his family have moved away to different countr...

I don't know how to cope with these feelings of being too small!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I need to know who feels the same and how to get rid of these feelings. I feel below women who are more attractive than me (pornstars, glamour models) I feel like they have more power over men, it hurts me. I feel small. I want a boob job. I'm ...

My husband keeps gaining weight and I find it so unattractive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I'm married to a veteran. We moved to Asia after he got out of the army. He used to look very muscular during his serving time but now after going back to the civil world, he started gaining lots of weight. I know he loves eating and drinking pop ...

What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or bi curious

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or at least bi curious? Then they say there are studies to back it up. Maybe so, but studies still cannot speak for every woman in the world. Or men for that matter. It's total bul...

Wife said I could leave so she can take care of ailing mother.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

15 May 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3 years and been together for 6. We are very happy and close and I couldn't ask for a better partner! Sometime before we met her mother was diagnosed with a rare cancer and given a very brief life expectancy, ...

What’s wrong with my friend? How can I help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - I have a friend. She’s like a sister to me. I’ve known her since she was born, which is 6 months after me. Our moms were best friends and they were both single moms. I had no father and her parents were divorced. For years I’ve thought that she has ...

When I'm drinking I don't find him attractive anymore, why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - I've never experienced this before and it's incredibly unusual for me! Usually they say when you drink someone looks more attractive.. But the guy I'm dating, he looks very good looking when I'm sober, yet once I've started drinking he starts ...

Boundaries with a patient- husband is a physical therapist- please would like some advice

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - Will try to be brief :-) SOme history: Im 43, BF is 48- we are both divorced and in a solid trusting relationship for past 6 months. Knew each other 3 years as friends so good foundation. BOth very happy. We live separate for now and everythi...

My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...

He found a smudge on the wall .........

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I have been living with my partner for 10 years. We have 2 kids. My name is not on anything because I am trying to up my credit score (bad credit). He is an ocd neat freak. I am messy. The house isn't a nightmare, but it's not pristine either. He ...

I think he might want me for a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I've had an unusual experience recently. I haven't felt attraction for anyone since 2011 and ever since that point I have been to strongly dictated by my head that I can't find love yet or meet anyone until I've healed myself, built ...