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Health: Help and advice

Has my break up given me an eating disorder?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I'm 32 and have 2 children. I split up with my partner on the 9th December. Was quite a bad break up and since then I just don't have any appetite what so ever.....I just push food around my plate and barely eat anything. Typical daily example is a ...

I feel lonely even when I am with my friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I don't know why, but even when I am with friends I always feel lonely, like they will always include me in everything, but I still feel so lonely, even when I am with my best friend, and it isn't like I just met them, I have known them for years.. ...

I love my girlfriend but I'm disgusted, jealous and angry about her sexual past with her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is a nice and I really love her a ton and want to spend the rest of my life with her. She's everything I could have ever wanted. She's smart, beautiful, and very kind. But when we first hooked up a friend of mine told me she gave BJs ...

Not only is my husband not sympathetic when I am ill, but he's mean!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My husband has no sympathy for me when I'm ill. Let me take that one step further, not only is he less than sympathetic, he is a little bit mean. He doesn't yell or anything but makes it very clear that he thinks I'm a hypochondriac and that there ...

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone ! My question is : Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter? Dont get me wrong , I dont have a horrible smell or taste , It's just that it is slightly more salty than Sweet. ...

Partner doesn't support my change of eating habits!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I've decided to change my eating habits for health reasons and my partner is not helping because he does a lot of the cooking and won't prepare the healthier meals I want, and when I say I'll do my own food he gets offended. We also used to drink ...

Should I continue to keep my cousin's secret from her family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hie! I am 22yrs and i have a cousin sister who is 24yrs who had been living wth HIV/AIDS 4 a year now but we are keeping it a secret me and her that even her own mother doesnt now. A year ago wen she told me that she was HIV positive after she went ...

What happened? Was it is miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I want to know if I had a miscarige or what? Well heres what happend I had sex with my bf on april 1st and we only had half way in sex he only put his penus half way in which he camed inside me and alot! And so my period didnt come for 2 ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...

My friend made a move on me. I pushed him away. How can I still be friends but still be clear that his move on me was not ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want ...

Alcohol has ruined my parents and I am so helpless

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - This Christmas was not any different to any other. In fact it was not much different to any other day except they did buy me presents and there are a lot more people. Christmas Eve i prepare all of the vegetables, stuff the turkey and put it in the ...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

Could the steroids numb him emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - please can you give some advice, i have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have some tough times over the last few months, he has admitted to me he is taking anobolic steriods, I think he has only told me as over the last few weeks he has ...

I'm skinny and eat unhealthily. What should I do? And guys, do you naturally prefer more well-rounded girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hey, I saw a similar question earlier and it got me thinking. I'm gonna be really blunt, I'm veery skinny. I weight around 100 lbs, I'm 5'9" and I'm 14. I eat rather unhealthily, I get my twiggyness from my mother. Also, I have many MANY other frie...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

Very unpredictable period

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Hello- my questions is not a relationship question.. This question is for the women on here.. I get my period every 4 to 5 months..and when I do get it its really heavy.. And I never know when I'm going to get it again. Does anyone know why this ...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

My Bf thought I was a virgin, because I lied. But someone sent a pix to him disproving that. How do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, I know what I did was wrong. But when I meet my current boyfriend I couldn't believe having found such a lovely guy. Having been used by guys in the past, my previous relationship were just sex. No love at all. But this guy ...

I was sick will this stop the pill from working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I had sex without a condom with my boyfreind but I'm on the pill I take it regular and never miss x the thing is I was sick three hours after taking the pill will this stop the pill from working just am due on my period any day now and this waslast ...

After 9 years he still doesn't know if he wants to start a family with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend of 9 years? I have been dating this man for 9 years, we have had our ups an downs, but i have never felt so lost. There are a lot traits about him I love and Hate. But my biggest issue is he won't talk about ma...

What lessons can I learn from this? My Boyfriend left without any warning after almost 1.5 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I’ve read a lot of wisdom on this site so I thought I’d seek some guidance and advice from you wonderful people. My BF of 1.5 years left me without any warning a month ago. I came home and all of his stuff was gone and only a note left saying...

Should I tell my mother that I have a boyfriend? I'm not sure she can handle the truth without flipping out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I am bi sexual and I have a boyfriend. My parents dont know. I don't know if I should tell my parents, because my mother flipped out when my sister told hert she was bi-sexual i dont know what to do....

Everyone is telling me to walk away. Should I wait as he asked, until his health improves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I am going through a hard time at the moment with my feelings towards someone special and I don't know what to do for the best. I'm so wrapped up in the situation I can't seem to make sense of it all. To start from the beginning, I have only bee...

Will the stubble in my vagina put my Bf off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Okay quick question! I'm going to have foreplay for the first time soon with my boyfriend. I have been shaving my vagina for years, but it always feel stubbly. I know boys prefer a shaved one to a hairy one, but im afraid the stubble will put h...

I want to wear my bikini, but my Bf gets teary and upset at me doing this. Is he over-reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend gets all teary and upset when I express interest in wearing a bikini. He hates the idea of someone looking at me but I'm proud of my body and sometimes I just want to show it (most of the time however I like adequate coverage...) Is ...

Did he take advantage of my (now shattered) feelings? And how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I have this casual friend whom I met after 3 years. He is studying in a good law school. It was a surprise meet and we talked for 3-4 days. Then I felt that I like spending time with him and would like to give this relationship a shot. I told him ...

Find a Motivation and succeed against the biggest health issues. My Story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - At the begining of the year i was in pieces, i cannot even describe how i felt this time last year and i am sure only people who have ever been through something similar to what i have been through can imagine how bad it felt. It was Decemebe...

How do I get through possibly the worst Christmas ever? Just broke up and he will not return my calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start..i just spent the last two months with the most wonderful boy. We broke up on thursday. When i first met him he had a girlfriend but split with her. They have a child together. I knew he was very down the last week and ...

How do I get over the depression that sleeping with my ex has caused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I need to know how I can get over my ex and get out of the depression that he has put me in. We dated for over five years and broke up for good a year ago. We've slept once since then, and then again last night. He has really messed a lot of thing...

Ladies: did you gain weight using the contraceptive pill? what contraception method results in no weight gain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hiya :) i've got a question about contraception and I was hoping you could help me out! Basically i'm 19, and since starting uni I went on the pill. I was on it once before, but stopped taking it after I broke up with my long term boyfriend, for ...

Is it normal for puberty to be slow to start? How long before before changes will occur to make me look more like a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - I don't think my penis looks right. It looks the same size and shape (like a shrimp and its embarasing) as it did when I was 9. It hasn't taken any teenage penis shape or size yet. What does this mean? Is it unusual?...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

My Mum doesn't want to see me Christmas day.Does anyone else thinks she is being cruel?. Should I phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I'm really hurt. I was supposed to be going to my mum's house tomorrow and stay until Christmas Day. I rang her tonight and she told me that she doesn't want to be bothered seeing me at all for Christmas now as she is tired and she just wants to ...

Can I keep my Gf and still do this? I'm pretending to not be attracted to other women to keep my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - Im in my first serious relationship for 3 years now. I love my girlfriend. She is beautiful and we get along. We are having our first child soon. I want to marry her. But sometimes I feel like I'm hiding part of myself from her. I think that if she ...

Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...

I feel people are killing me with their judgment, advice please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I'm really frustrated, how come people do believe in the power of prayer, or manifesting things from the universe, or many other miracles, any supernatural events, but they refuse 100%, of the possibility of curse? If there are blessings , there ...

Am I a sex addict?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi! I´m a 16 year old girl (and Im going to make 17 years next month, january) and lately I have been wondering why do i think at every second about sex. At the beginning, when i started to noticed it I thought that thinking about sex all the time...

What are your weight advice tips for the new year?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Basically, for my new years revolution i want to lose some weight. I am overweight not majorly but yeah i would like to lose abit of weight. I am just over 11 stone (72 lbs) i am a size 12 to 14 ( european sizes) i...

I've lost myself.....Could I be depressed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi all, I was wondering if anyone can help me? Over the past 12 months I've noticed some significant changes and I'm not quite sure what to do. I only turned 21 a few months ago, prior to this I was a very social person. I loved going out clubbing ...

Why do some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings as they age?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Does anyone know why some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings, etc, when they are older ?. Is it because they have been on their own for a long time, and they get set in their ways ?. I've...

It's not him, It's me. Can one overcome major trust issues? Would explaining more to him help? Or just breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I am writing here to vent out my feelings and the trouble I'm having in my relationship. I've always been a clingy girlfriend. I do like to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend and I would get disappointed if he would not do the same. The onl...

I'm 16. Can I get an IUD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Basically, I'm 16 and DO NOT want children for a while. I'm on the pill, but I don't trust it. I hate using condoms- they're too small for my boyfriend, but the large ones are too big, and the friction from them hurts me. So I was wondering- wo...

Is she being completely honest with me or lying about something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently got back together after being broken up for about a year. We've been back together since September of this year. Everything was great, emotionally and physically, for the first month. Then, all of a sudden, she's not ...

Has anyone ever spent New Year's Eve alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Hey aunts! So, I'm going through a pretty rocky phase in my life (my mom passed away last spring, I recently broke up with my 5year bf and I'm very heartbroken). Looks like I'm gonna be spending New Years Eve alone. I know it's a super loser thing ...

How do you handle everyone around you in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - I go to post-secondary school with people who are all older than me and at different stages of their life. They all seem to be in a relationship. I feel sad that I'm alone or that I have so many people around me there that live with their loved one ...

When I'm horny, I make very poor decisions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Alright so im just going to say this. When I am horny i make very poor decisions. This girl I dated for awhile turned out to be crazy. Like faking a pregnancy crazy...anyway I dont want anything to do with her but when Im in the mood I think of ...